Should i fight for the feelings?

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I met this guy last summer in another country. Our cultures are so different. We had a crazy affair, I felt something like that for a very first time. Now I`m in my country, studying and almost nothing reminds me of him. I want to see him again so bad, but I`m afraid that I cannot move to his country. We were together for 3 months. Should I at least visit him? I need to save much money to do that.

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Based on 9 votes (6 yes)
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  • sexysonofsam
    9 years ago

    I am sorry to break your buzz, but to me you were only a good fuck!

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      9 years ago

      why so?

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      • sexysonofsam
        9 years ago

        I kid you my girl, life is too short to take it so seriously!

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  • CloverFish
    9 years ago

    You should probably plan a visit, even if it takes awhile to save up for. The thing that gets me though is that you said 'affair'. Does he already have a wife, and is she aware that you two love each other?

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      9 years ago

      oh no, he doesn't have a wife or a girlfriend. I`m not a native speaker and "affair" is the only word that came to my mind :)

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      • CloverFish
        9 years ago

        That makes the situation much better! "Fling" would probably be a better term instead of 'affair'; fling is used more with short relationships, and affair usually brings situations where one person is cheating on the other with a new person to mind. Weird, but English is just a strange language to deal with anyways.

        Anyways, yeah, you should definitely save to visit him again sometime. Long distance relationships are hard, but are very worth it if the person is. I actually started out with a long distance relationship and live with my boyfriend now.

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        • Anonymous Post Author
          9 years ago

          Thank you for your explanation! :) I think I got it.

          That`s really cool that things worked out for you, guys. Maybe I will give it a try :)

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  • thegypsysailor
    9 years ago

    IMO, if he wants you to visit him, he should chip in half of what it will cost for the visit. I think that's only fair.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      9 years ago

      He suggested me to pay for everything, but I know he needs money for his family. He has difficult family circumstances :(

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      • thegypsysailor
        9 years ago

        Without being a downer, here, I think you must consider the reality. If he can't chip in for you to visit, can he afford to take care of you if this turns into something that should be permanent? I'd hate to see you heartbroken, after investing so much, economically and emotionally.

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        • Anonymous Post Author
          9 years ago

          Thank you for your comment. I think you are right, but it`s so hard to accept that these relationships lead to nothing good.

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          • thegypsysailor
            9 years ago

            I sincerely hope I am NOT right, really.

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