Should i dump him ?

I am going to make this short ,we dated (dateing) for about a year now I am still in love with him. He moved to another place far away from me. He trys to control me I can't go out ,who I am firends with who I talk to and what I wear ...my mum hates him and all my firends do also,they want me to dump him and never speak to him again. Number one because he kidda black mailed me to stay with him (in a joken away) apart from all of this I really feel for him,he always there for me for good times or bad what do i do ? And is it normal to me to carry on seeing him

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Based on 45 votes (18 yes)
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Comments ( 13 )
  • Ryan556

    Wait why dump a guy because everyone else hates him if you like him then you should be with him : /

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  • Its2pm

    >_> Why're you even asking for a second opinion.. DUMP HIM

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  • SandsOfTheMind

    Control freak, much? Dump his ass! You are not a posession.

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  • trickydick

    Dump him you'll be happier xxxx

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  • Heh?

    You and your "master" are taking the whole BDSM thing a tad too far.

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  • whitefish0404

    controlling is bad, very bad, blackmailing too is bad.

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  • Ahahaha agreed. Dump him and I am cracking up over th lesbian thing lol. U tell him look, I lik u but u do not own me so move on jackass.

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  • Easedrop.

    Dump him.

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  • Abtanazahx

    Tell him that you have become a lesbian. That's the only way to let him down gently.

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  • Uhm dump his ass. Do you really have to ask?

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  • zchristian

    if he dont let you go out whit friends or who ever then i think you should dump him

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  • Why would you date a controlling guy like that? You are an independent woman and you don't need a boyfriend choreographing your every move. And if all your family and friends hate him then your probably not seeing something. Dump him now

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  • Ratso

    How did he blackmail u "in a jokin way"
    And hun if he's doin all that I'd dump him. He seems insecure.

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