Should i come out to my friends about being bi??

I am bisexual but i'm afraid to tell my friends because I am afraid they wont see me as the same person...Advice??

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  • Crusades

    Dude, no one cares. Everybody and their mom is bisexual nowadays. What difference does it make? It's like confessing that you like your steak cold...

    Who the fuck cares??

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    • thegypsysailor

      I agree with Crusades completely and would like to add; it really is none of anyone's business anyway. Why do you feel the need to broadcast your sexual preferences to others? If someone asks, then that's one thing, but if not........

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    • Royalburden

      People like their steak cold?

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    • Riddler

      I loved this comment.

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  • Why would you feel obligated to tell them your sexual orientation? If you do decide to tell them and they start treating you different or bad then you know they are not good friends.

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  • LiveForToday,LiveForTommorow

    Yes. If they accept you that's good but if they don't oh well. They were never your real friends to begin with if that's the case.

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  • Inu20

    If they were true friends, they would accept who you really are.

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  • (s)aint

    I really don't see the big need of "coming out" unless you are to introduce them to a same sexed partner , Only reason why my family knows that I can fuck girls too is because after some heated discussions where I defended gay rights I kinda just felt like throwing that in mums face. Oh boy did I got apologies <3

    Then again, I live in a very gay-friendly country and things are very different depending on where you live. Around here you aren't even "Allowed" to dislike homosexuals and make noises about it.

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  • FrankTheFunkyPigeon

    Yeah tell them, they shouldnt mind and they should accept you, if they dont accept you then they were never really your friends in the first place x

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  • Darkblonde

    Hi im bi and i came out age 14 to mum and she dealt with it pretty well actually. Do u have a gf or bf?

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    • flawlessbabe_xoxo

      I am a female and I have a boyfriend but I am just more attracted to females ...

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  • Underthelittleblackraincloud

    Who cares? tbh bisexual really isn't a big deal, I'd dated boys my whole life and i once came home with a girl, and my mom was like 'okay cool'

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  • GreatArt

    Nobody needs to know. A while ago, bisexuality didn't even exist.

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  • Tommythecat.

    No, because they'll hate you for lying to them.

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    • flawlessbabe_xoxo

      I didn't necessarily lie to them we never really talked about if I was bisexual or not ??

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      • Tommythecat.

        It's still a big secret you kept from them, omg you're such a terrible person.

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  • gummy_jr

    I really don't care.

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  • LornaMae

    Revealing something like that will either bring you closer to your friends (which is a good thing) or drift you apart (which is an even better thing, IMO) :)

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