Should i check if my brothers wife's baby is mine or not

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I have always had a thing for my brother's wife and one night i met her with her friends drinking and at the end of the night I walked her home because she had to go through a wood, where she thanked me with a kiss that led to us making love.

We agreed that that night was a one off, but now she's pregnant and she's told me that, she's sure the baby's mine and that she thought I should know and that she loves me and would leave him for me. Me and my brother have never been close and i love her too.

Should i get checks or something if the baby is mine, even though it might not make a difference as me and my brother are very similar in looks and build etc.
Also there is the baby and knowing later who its Father is?

Just move away and keep my distance. Maybe join up the Army? 2
Tell her to forget we ever made love and leave things as they are 12
Get some checks and somehow find out if the baby is mine. 28
Move away and take her with me. 5
Tell my brother and leave it at that 10
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  • wigz
    6 years ago

    It's easy to say honesty is the best policy here...but it really depends on your intentions and how stable their marriage is.

    If you don't really want a kid, and/or can't provide for it and/or they have a pretty good relationship, then maybe you should let it go. Health concerns aren't even really an issue because he's your brother so you all have the same family history. I think you should weigh out what will end up being best for the kid and if them raising it as their own is likely to be better than exposing everything then maybe agree to keep it a secret.

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  • anormalperson
    6 years ago

    check if the baby is yours first than tell him.
    if the baby is yours they will propably divorce but if its his then they should stay together.
    i am saying this because its best for the baby.
    one more question why didnt you use a condom tho?

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    • nikkiclaire
      6 years ago

      Its not best for the baby for his brother to stay in a loveless marriage with a cheating slut whore of a wife. How is that good in any stretch of the imagination.

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    • pete100
      6 years ago

      It wasn't planned, it just happened. One minute we were kissing, the next.....

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      • nikkiclaire
        6 years ago

        And the next she loves you and would leave her husband for you? She sounds deranged. Run mate RUN.

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  • 1920
    6 years ago

    your brother deserves to know the truth. Better now then never.

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    • JonathanOo
      6 years ago

      Yup tell him. If he leaves or tells you to be with her then that's that. Not telling him is wrong and disingenuous if you both love each other anyway

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  • confusedmom
    6 years ago

    Its might not the most popular thing to say but i would just keep leting my husband think it was his kid (if i was married ) and ask his brother to do the same . It would ruin both my marriage and what ever relationship he had with his brother.

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  • confusedmom
    6 years ago

    Its might not the most popular thing to say but i would just keep leting my husband think it was his kid (if i was married ) and ask his brother to do the same . It would ruin both my marriage and what ever relationship he had with his brother.

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  • Princeshowtime
    6 years ago

    First, you should have never slept with your brother's wife. If it came to that, even after a night of drinking, you should have stopped it, and then shared with his wife that she needs to watch the behavior. I would then try to tip my brother off about honest concerns protecting the dignity of brother hood and marriage. Finally, if she did it again after that, you'll just have go tell your brother his wife is a sl*t. I'd do that bc if she isn't sleeping with you...she is sleeping with someone else.

    Now, about the child...you need to tell him. First, (and again) you shouldn't have done that. Take some responsibility and own it since you slept with his wife. If I was him, I'd probably do something real evil to you since you are his brother, but I'll save that topic for a different day. So, if the marriage is torn up bc you told him--it should be anyway. Who wants a wife that would sleep with a brother and, who wants a brother that would sleep with his brother's wife. You're a looser.

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  • randypete
    6 years ago

    your brother will kill you just get out and do not tell anybody where you are

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