Should i break up with my boyfriend for him experimenting years ago?

I'm 21 and my boyfriend is 22, we've been together for 8 months and 2 days ago he got drunk and they told me about how him and his best friend gave each other head 4 times in highschool. It freaked me out and they just thought it was funny. They were 16 at the time and he is still best friends with this guy, who now has a girlfriend, and they hang out all the time and share a dorm.

He swears it never meant anything and that they were just experimenting and being dumb teenage boys and nothing like that ever happened later on. They both claim to be straight but I don't see how 2 guys can do that 4 times without being gay.

I told him I was going to tell his friends girlfriend about it and he freaked out on me and said it was none of my business to tell her. I'm really considering breaking up with him, I can't see him or his friend without thinking about what they did. He said it's a common thing as a teenage guy but it grosses me out.

Am I over reacting?

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Comments ( 16 )
  • here2help

    girls frequently experiment in college, whats the big deal if guys do a few times? youre being irrational, im sure your bf has many things he could break up with you over that are irrational as well.

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    • MethSmokingSatanist

      Girl-on-girl porn comes up in the straight section on most websites so that means its not gay.

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      • here2help

        this guy gets it

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  • charli.m

    Perfectly fine to tell her..if you're a self centred, immature cunt.

    What business is it of yours what he did before you were together?

    I think you should leave him, though. He deserves better than you. Fuckin homophobic scum.

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  • donteatstuffoffthesidewalk

    well now hes gonna hafta tell his next girlfriend bout you

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  • MethSmokingSatanist

    Its not your buisiness to tell his girlfriend. I say you should encourage him to do it again, get it on video, make lots of $$$. Good money to be made in amateur gay porn

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  • rltg4711

    I don't get it. Girls go down on guys all the time and no doubt they enjoy it. Maybe even you have done this, so what is the difference if a guy takes another guy's cock in his mouth?

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  • IKnowWhoYouReallyAre

    Troll harder, you are in reality a gamy man pretending to be a girl to start a sex war, typical gay misogynists. Like a girl who knows her boy friend dated other girls before would have any problem if he did one with a guy, infact research shows girls with bi boyfriends find it much better to date a boy friend who previously dated mostly boys than girls. And yes if this were true it were gay, and it is totally lie to claim to be straight. I was a teenage boy myself and never once thought to do those craps with a dude, simply cause I do not swing that way or find them attractive and only girls turn me on. Only idiots experiment and it is not common among all teenagers in the lesat! You being a gay guy have no right to judge straight people by your sexual perception or preference and most teenage boys do not like the idea at all, although it seems to be more common among girls. Infact I as a straiught guy like lesbian porns simply cause I find naked men disgusting, and watching hot girls fuck each other makes my dick hard as its only girls I am attracted to, So deny all you want, try to start a sex war all you want (it is one of he most prominent feature of the wretched gay agenda). But you wont convince anyone who here who is used to seeing such troll posts of yours, and deep inside matter how much you claim to be a girl you know very well you are a gay guy but hurt for getting rejected by straight people and whine about it here by making crappy troll posts about straight guys haring gay tendencies, and pretending to be a girl. So troll harder fag!

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    • LastTime

      Totally agree with you. Also like straight guys love lesbian porns, some straight girls love gay porns. Homophobic girls exis but they hate lesbians not gays, just like homophobic guys who hate gays not lesbians. I agree with you the OP is a troll and a gay guy pretending to be a girl and trying to make people hate girls and he is also the same gay troll responsible for all the infinite "straight guy wanting to suck cock" posts. Hes just jealous of girls because straight guys like them and reject him, lol!

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  • MR.mr

    two things

    1. DO NOT! DO NOT!! DO NOT!!! tell the guy's girlfriend, that's their business and unless he's cheating on her with the guy by experimenting again, it's none of her business. Plus that's a private affair he may not want disclosed.

    2. It shouldn't be an issue for you since it's in the past, that said if it bothers you that much then you probably should break up for both your sakes.

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  • jimmythecunt

    There is absolutely nothing wrong with your boyfriend, he sucked his best friends dick on four occasions and vice versa, that is totally normal behaviour for boys of there age as girls of there age did not want suck their dicks for them!

    You should not judge him because girls are grossed out by sucking dicks when they are 16!

    Boys will be Boys and they will certainly help each other experience the finer things in life!

    Your boyfriend now has you to suck his dick and thus no longer needs his best friend to help him out, if he does, you are not doing it right and only have yourself to blame!

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  • luna101

    If that were to happen to me I would feel really weird as well and grossed out as well, and think if he did it once maybe it could happen again and I would just overthink the situatuon, I guess it is only human to react that way. But I do know that the healthy thing to do, is not live in the past especially if you weren't in the picture yet. We can only find peace and happiness when we live in the now, the present moment. And also I do know I wouldn't want my boyfriend to judge over things I did in the past and wouldn´t ever do now. So, I guess you shouldn´t, not over that.

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  • RoseIsabella

    I can't tell you whether or not to break up with this guy, but it's probably not a good idea to spill the beans to this other guy's girlfriend. If you can't live with your guy's past its probably not a good idea to stay with him, because he can't change his past. Like it or not you basically have to choose to accept or reject the truth of his past.

    Whatever you do be true to yourself and to him, don't live in denial of your true feelings, because then you'll be living a lie. There could very well be someone better out there for each of you.

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  • rayb12

    break up, he deserves to be with someone who trusts and accepts him.

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  • felixy

    Tell your bf that he can't confide in you the same way you can with him. It's a double standard but it's reality: he only made himself less attractive to you.

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