Should i break it off?

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So this isn't really an 'Is It Normal' but I have a boyfriend and I like him but I just can't really see it going anywhere. I'm not sure if I want to break up or not though because we are good friends but I kind of like another guy. If I break up with him though it will be very awkward as my friend is good friends with him too and we sit next to each other in a few lessons. Every time he says 'I love you' I don't know whether to lie and say it back or to just dodge it as everytime it has been over text. The only reason I am asking on here is that I feel that my friends may judge and there is a lot of pressure for me to stay with him.

I'm male and I think you should break up 23
I'm female and I think you should break up 45
I'm male and I dont think you should break up 3
I'm female and I don't think you should break up 11
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  • Justsomejerk
    11 years ago

    I read this right after the big nose title.

    IIN I have a nose that's too big for my face? Should I break it off?

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  • Quizguy
    11 years ago

    Life is short. Move on.

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  • FuzzyxPickles
    11 years ago

    If you aren't happy or don't have feelings for your boyfriend you should break it off. There's no reason to string someone along like that. Don't base the decision off what your friends think - this is your life, not theirs.

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  • MargieRooster
    11 years ago

    If you are happy, then you shouldn't break it off because of what your friends say or think.

    BUT if you don't see this going anywhere or you just don't have feelings for him, don't drag it out and hurt him even more for staying longer.

    If I were you, I'd just give it some time or take a step back to find yourself.

    Good luck :D

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    • MsWVgal
      11 years ago

      This.

      Plus, you should make a decision about this relationship WITHOUT interference from "the other guy." Why sacrifice a happy relationship for the *possibility* of a new one but the *guarantee* of drama?

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  • [Old Memory]
    11 years ago

    Break it off and shove it up your ass!

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  • davesumba
    11 years ago

    Here is a great tip, if you ever think you should break it off, YOU SHOULD. It is only a matter of time before this happens, so save yourselves the trouble and do it sooner than later.

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  • ccjigsaw
    11 years ago

    I say break up and stay single for a while until it is an acceptable time length to date the friend.

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  • birdmany
    11 years ago

    Have you discussed having an open love triangle? They might be more receptive than you think. Put your cards on the table ASAP and see what happens.

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  • WasThatAMoth
    11 years ago

    Life is too short for bullshit. If you ain't happy, then its time to move on. Sorry, but I suggest you break his heart into a million pieces and not care where the pieces fall...lol

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