Should i blow his mates

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About 5 years ago I had an affair with a guy from work. Not my finest moment but I was in a bad place back then and my marriage was struggling. My husband found out and we broke up for a while. The affair ended and after about a year apart me and my husband got back together. We had marriage counselling and both really worked at our relationship. When the pandemic came along we found ourselves both on furlough for about 4 months. It was an amazing time for us, just the 2 of us isolating with no work. We had loads of amazing sex, and romance in our relationship really blossomed. In that year I fell pregnant with our first child and despite the dreadful things going on in the world with Covid, for us it seemed our life was perfect. Then about 2 weeks ago my husband dropped a bomb. Apparently he had been boasting to his mates that I give the most amazing blow jobs. He has now said he wants me to blow them all, there is 3 of them, to prove it. I was furious and disgusted and told him no way. I can’t believe he actually wants me to do this. We rowed about it, something we rarely do these days, but he won’t let it drop. He goes on about how I didn’t mind giving Dave a blow job (the guy I had the affair with). He seems to think he will loose face with his mates if I don’t do this. Every day he brings it up and goes on about it until I either get mad or get upset. It’s destroying our relationship and now I’m starting to wonder if I should just do what he wants and get it over so things can go back to normal. Our son is one in a few weeks, this should be a really happy time in our life but this thing is destroying us.

I should leave him even though it will break up our family 2
I should stand my ground and refuse 6
I should do what he wants 6
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  • Anonymous Post Author
    2 years ago

    Thank you for all your comments. I know some of you will think I am mad but I decided I am going to do what he wants. But I’m doing it on my terms. I’ve told him if I do this I will suck their dicks but, they don’t get to cum in my mouth, but I will let them fuck me afterwards. I will do the first one next weekend. We will spend the night together at a hotel. He will stay home and look after our son. I will do the same the following 2 weekends. In the meantime he will get no sex from me until it’s all done. Then only when I feel ready.

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  • Elroy7141
    2 years ago

    Sounds like he’s into cuckold. If you want to suck there dicks then do it and let him watch and let him fuck you after

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  • jackstormwater
    2 years ago

    Tell all his friends you don’t give head, and your husband was just making it up. Then never suck his dick again.

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  • RoseIsabella
    2 years ago

    You should stop trolling.

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  • ChrissySnow
    2 years ago

    Honestly, I think you should do what your husband really wants or divorce him for good. I vote for marriage.

    I think he had been boasting to his mates about your most amazing blow jobs to justify why he took back his cheating wife. These must be the 3 friends that stuck by him when you cheated on him and left him. They held him up when you let him down. If he seems to think he will lose face with his mates if you don’t do this, then he has obviously said other stuff to these 3 that you clearly don't know about. This other stuff is what I'd most want to know

    In a real way these 3 friends are the ones you need to convince thar your husband should keep you. They have enough influence on your husband that it is affecting your marriage. They got your husband to give you this "Shit Test" to see if you really are worth taking back and keeping. To me, your best bet is to RELUCTANTLY agree to do exactly what your husband wants. Afterwards, and the 3 are gone, feel free to cry your eyes out.

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  • olderdude-xx
    2 years ago

    First, I'd tell him that yes, you made a mistake and that you learned your lessons from that; and what happened back then is long past and you don't intend to repeat some of your mistakes again.

    I also believe that now is the time for some marriage counseling.

    There is obviously a real disconnect that needs to be resolved, if it can.

    Is he actually interested in having a solid marriage with you, or not?

    There is a time and place, and appropriate ways to broach and potentially discuss various degrees of open marriage. But, what he is doing is not in any way an appropriate way to do that.

    I wish you well with this,

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  • jrbsportz
    2 years ago

    Well,this is it you are tired of him bringing it up everyday and you think well why not suck their's dicks then he be over it NO!!! whats next he go around saying that you are a amazing fuck and then wants you to fuck his friends too?Maybe doing 3ways in y'all bedroom with his buddy's No!! Your relationship can't handle the pressure of these situations because you two have broken up before and besides if he wants a slut let him go you are better then this!!! Just saying

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