Should i befriend a 47 year old stranger i met at work?

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So yesterday I was working, I work at a bar so i mean speaking to strangers is kind of my job. But yesterday was different, this guy came up to me and began to speak to me in a manner that I've never been spoken to before by a man. With respect he stayed out of my personal space. He told me everything he perceived about me and described to me (just by looking at me) everything about me, inside and out. No joke this guy was more percice than i was. He answered questions that i had deep in my heart without me even asking them. He, was able to see into my soul. He wants to become friends with me and hang out with me one day as friends. I don't really know if i should, He is a nice guy and i know he has alot to teach me but im not sure. Should i befriend him or not?

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  • NeuroNeptunian
    12 years ago

    I'd say get to know him a bit better first and don't hang out with him alone.

    This guy sounds like a real charmer, he could be great, but just think... This guy is at an age where most men have a wife, kids, and a job, and he is in a bar chatting up a girl that could be young enough to be his daughter. You have to be a little cynical sometimes. 47 years is plenty of time to figure out how to charm young women such as yourself, and face it... you are young and naive.

    And like I said, wtf is a 47 year old man doing in a bar hitting on the employees. Don't hang out with him alone, if you do, even though I wouldn't recommend it at all. Listen to your instincts. If you weren't the least bit suspicious, you would have just done it by now.

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  • tori
    12 years ago

    That little voice in your head knows something. Listen to it.
    If you want to befriend him, just make time to see him at public places. Do not give phone numbers or home address. Just say "same place, same time?" to him.
    My concern is he is much older than you. Some people know how to read people. Tell them what they think they want to hear. It's happened to me. Like you, I thought they knew my soul. I was wrong. He began to stalk me. It was a bit scarey. Luckily nothing bad happened after I saw him following me in his car. I pulled into a police station and be sped off. Never heard from him again.

    Just keep your wits about you. Maybe he is a genuine person.

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  • anti-hero
    12 years ago

    How old are you? If you work in a bar I am guessing at least 21? If so you are both adults, so what's the big deal with age?

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