Should i become a part time stripper?

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I could do with the money. I was brought up by a mother who taught me to never be embarrassed by sex. I knew what prostitutes and strippers were from a young age. My mum is close friends with an escort. So this stuff doesn't really get to me. I don't see it as having bad morals.
I am confident with my body and my looks. I was offered a stripping job about seven months ago, but turned it down due to many conflicting circumstances. I would like to prove to my ex boyfriend that he is missing out too. He always said he would love to see me strip.
Should I just go crazy and go for it? Most of my family and friends will be okay with it. But I am a bit apprehensive about it getting out too much and having people who dislike this use it as a reason to get to me. I don't want rumors going round about me etc.

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dirtybirdy

11 years ago | pl

Do what you want to do. Usually the haters are just jealous. Strip it up mama! Pics would assist in the proper evaluation of this though :p

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FocoUS

11 years ago

Make sure you pick a joint where the guys aren't allowed to touch and you're good.

My advice is if you do become a stripper don't do it for long. It's good money but maybe after a few months guys might start asking about your name an number. That would be the time to leave.

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shade_ilmaendu

11 years ago

If it's something you honestly want to do, go for it and fuck the haters. It's definitely good money :p

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mightymouse

11 years ago

THE ONLY TWO QUESTIONS THAT MATTER

1. Would you be okay with your future husband knowing what you did?

2. Would you be okay with your future kids knowing what you did?

That's all that matters.

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VioletTrees

11 years ago

If you want to be a stripper, do it. Make sure it's a good, safe work environment first, though. You might want to talk to some strippers who already work for the place you're considering working for, so you can find out what the working conditions are like.

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REvEnGE

11 years ago

don't do it.

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Reeves

11 years ago

Okay... if you are for real. Get a job at a strip club that's maybe 50 miles away from your home town. Try stripping there for a couple of weeks. If you like it, then find a strip club that is closer to your home town. If you don't like it. Nobody's the wiser and no one but you has to know that you gave it the old college try : )

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[Old Memory]

11 years ago

No, have some self respect. Is money worth your dignity?

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[Old Memory]

11 years ago

-FIRST PARAGRAPH OFF TOPIC TO THE LINE-

God damn those evil men! Forcing you to become a stripper!...Oh, we're not at that part in which we blame men for women "objectifying" themseleves yet? Sorry, I'll wait.
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In all seriousness, if you want to do it, you should do it. If you're doing this to get back at your ex to show him "what he's missing", then I actually find that pretty disgusting.
Rumours will most likely happen, and if it's stuff like you being a stripper that you don't want coming out, then that's going to happen most likely.

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- NeuroNeptunian
  
  11 years ago
  
  =.= Was that... was that really necessary?
  
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  - Anonymous Post Author
    
    11 years ago
    
    I didn't even understand a word he said lol.
    
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  - Lynxikat
    
    11 years ago
    
    To ItDuz, mentioning how hard men have it in society every chance he gets is completely and utterly necessary. Even when men are not mentioned at all in the post, and the thought of "stripping = bad b/c woman are objectified by men" wasn't even brought up.
    
    You know, maybe if we all just stopped responding to ItDuz's comments, do you think he'll stop?
    
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    - Anonymous Post Author
      
      11 years ago
      
      I so agree. I saw him comment on another post the other day. The post had NOTHING to do with sex or gender but he somehow manage to twist it and made a comment about women.
      To be honest, he really is getting quite annoying with it now.
      
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      - Lynxikat
        
        11 years ago
        
        He's certainly not doing the "fight for a better society for men because they truly have it so hard in the world" by constantly bringing up the subject where sex or gender aren't even mentioned.
        
        He's making his case worse, actually. Constantly bringing it up the way he does just make him look like a misogynistic complainer; his "man > woman" & "men have it so hard" argument is starting to become a huge joke, and he has no one to blame but himself.
        
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        [Old Memory]
        
        11 years ago
        
        Actually, no. I haven't said women have it worst, I am trying to make people identify that men have it just as bad. Media shows women having it bad so much, and the whole feminist group that is mainly man-hating now gets so much media time, yet some male on a site explaining the sexism towards men and double standards is just unnacceptable and ruining their case?
        
        "Don't speak about it, you'll ruin your point"...But I haven't explained why I came to the conclusion I have. "That doesn't matter, if you go on, you ruin your point". But if I don't go on I have no point.
        
        I am in no way misogynistic, I have merely explained truth, and if you dissagree with that, give me an example of how I am a misogynist.
        
        The reason why you see it as a joke is because you don't want to hear it, and assuming that you're a woman, that's completely understandable.
        
        Do you think it's just a coinsidence that 99.9% of users on here that seem to think what I say is a joke are women? Funny that, isn't it?
        
        Personally, I have grown to expect women to react the way you have here. Women have this whole "our gender is equal in every way, but don't treat us in every way. Oh we're so hard done to" attitude, that if anyone mentions anything that implies anything different, it's just a joke.
        
        I am doing this for males to hear more than I am for women to hear so that they can understand, not for women. I don't care if women find it a joke, because I find such women as jokes, and I only care about the male's opinions on it because 98% of women cannot think rationally if what is being discussed involves something that is offensive to any group she belongs to (female gender).
        
        A fine example to this is how the majority of my polls on this matter that I have given options such as:
        Male - I agree
        Male - I dissagee
        Female - I agree
        Female - I dissagree
        
        The males tend to agree, where as, suprise suprise, the majority of females dissagree.
        
        Don't assume just because the majority of the people that reply to me dissagree with me equals to the majority of people here dissagreeing with me, because there are far more users that don't comment and reply than those that do, and males that answer polls agree with me.
        
        Don't assume that just because the majority of replies to me (not many all in) don't agree with me, because it seems the ones that don't comment agree with me.
        
        Women are offended easily, and when they do, rational thinking is very rare. A fine example would be how I tested the community. I made two stories, both are different scenarios with the same reasoning, but only one mentioned women directly, where as the one that didn't involve any gender and was an everyday activity didn't mention women at all, so the part which would make them offended was gone. Both scenarious were the same situation, same reasioning, same deductive logic. The women that were offended and dissagreed so much with the female ones obviously dissagreed with me, yet a few of those people that were saying I was wrong on the women one agreed with me fully on the other scenario that had the same situation, just without the part that could offend women, and the majority agreed with me on the scenario that didn't involve women as a part of it.
        
        Funny that, isn't it?
        
        So again. When I speak on these subjects, it's for men to hear, women can bitch if they want, they usually can't answer my points anyway.
        
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  - [Old Memory]
    
    11 years ago
    
    I clearly stated at the start that the first paragraph is off topic, which implies to just skip to the second paragaraph.
    
    People like to blame the men that run strip clubs for strippers, so I thought I would make a half joke/half truth. A lot of people even on this site don't blame the womenchoosing to be strippers as much as the people employing women to be strippers.
    
    Again, I clearly indicated the first paragraph was off topic.
    
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    - NeuroNeptunian
      
      11 years ago
      
      =.=
      
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      - [Old Memory]
        
        11 years ago
        
        Ugh. As if an indication to tell you not to read the top part if you want to read the part on topic was enough to make someone that doesn't want to read things off topic to...You know, skip the off topic part.
        
        I clearly stated what was on topic and what wasn't, you decided to read it, that was your doing.
        
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        11 years ago
        
        =.=
        
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        Now THAT is off topic.
        
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xoxoasamikissmexoxo

8 years ago

You go, girl! Objectify your body and let your future husband and children be forever ashamed by you!

Anyone that actually enjoys being objectified needs help. Find someone who you want to be with and do all you want with them, but being treated like a playtoy certainly isn't healthy.

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[Old Memory]

11 years ago

Bring the kids with you since you wouldn'y trust some junkie to take care of your children, would you? Have Dad and all his buddies come down too. They've never seen tits.

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theaverageatheist

11 years ago

personaly i would never do it or anything close to that.
If I neaded the money I would try any other job befor chousing it as a last resort.
by what you have written you don't seem that desperat, just whant to get back at you bf, and wouldn't mind your cash problem being solved.
are you shoure that you can't finde a better job? one that gives you the chance at proper promotions not more stripping.

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  11 years ago
  
  I'm a full time university student so don't have time for jobs that involve promotions etc.
  So far I'm about £10,000 in debt and struggling to live a life basically.
  
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  - theaverageatheist
    
    11 years ago
    
    still I would try some thing else, mabey it's becose my family and friends would never whant to see me again.
    
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Lynxikat

11 years ago

If you really have no issue with it, then... sure, knock yourself out.

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vietshortee

11 years ago

I can't tell you what to do but i 100% think you shouldn't. Becoming an stripper is an act that will leave you vulnerable. Your body is the most important thing to you and if you give it away, that means you're giving your life away to strangers to play with. You shouldn't do that just to prove to your ex that he is missing out.

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Thewomanizer

11 years ago

omg noo way its a very downgrading job especially for woman, no matter what any one says its morally NOT right... there are plenty of other jobs u can do to get lots money and if u dont WANT other people gossiping about u ( which u dont) then stripping is the best job in the world as u get to know everyone pretty much

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  11 years ago
  
  What other well paid jobs are there for students when the employment rate in the UK is shockingly low?
  
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  - Thewomanizer
    
    11 years ago
    
    well find something, anything but that or move country
    
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    - Anonymous Post Author
      
      11 years ago
      
      Everything is too low paid. I won't be able to pay my bills/debt.
      And I will never move country. I love my country. Other countries are in an even worse situation than mine even.
      Stripping is just a job. I am using being a female to my advantage to make money. I believe sex is not a taboo and still cannot believe people still see it as that. It's 2012, people should not be sexually repressed anymore. We like sex and so it only makes sense to have a sex industry.
      
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      - Thewomanizer
        
        11 years ago
        
        well thats a bit fuked up no offense, if u want to lower yourself to that standard and feel dirty later in life then go ahead ...
        
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NeuroNeptunian

11 years ago

I don't think that stripping is anything to be ashamed of.

I see the erotic dancing as just another form of entertainment. If you want to go into the outfit then go for it, but make sure you watch your ass.

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jitterbug66

11 years ago

Be Naughty Nancy or something like that. You should dress up as a cop too.

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