Should i be doing this?

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Ok. I'm a very shy/awkward person and so I don't have much experience at talking to people. I do talk to some people online but it's not like I let this rule my life or anything.
One day, a guy my age started to talk to me. He thinks I'm cute (and he's the only male person to say that to me within the last three years) and he seems cool.
But, for a couple of days we have been flirting and it's getting a bit... sexual. I'm kind of a prude as it is and I guess that I'm scared that this guy is just using me to get some sexual kicks out of it. Also, we live like two hours apart and he said that he doesn't need a gf and that he likes this flirting with me.
He hasn't asked for naked nudes (as I made that clear from the start that it would make me uncomfortable) and he just asks for some non sexual selfies.
I just don't want my lack of experience with guys to cloud my judgement and make me gullible to him and make me lose my dignity.
Maybe I need to chill out and have fun... I am an 18 year old girl so I guess that I should have a bit of fun...
I'm just scared of losing control.
So, anyway, should I allow this to carry on?

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Based on 41 votes (24 yes)
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  • Gspyder
    9 years ago

    There's nothing wrong with sexting if you're having fun with it. He IS using you for sexual kicks though. You stated that he told you he doesn't want to date but still let the conversation get sexual. It's up to you if you're okay with that or not.

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  • IIN2?uestionlife
    9 years ago

    I mean he did say he didnt want a girlfriend...you sound like your enjoying it though. Just keep your distance and be carefull to avoid being hurt.

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  • mountain-man82
    9 years ago

    Theres no harm in flirting or sexting since you are both presumably single. I wouldnt send any selfies though since he has made it clear that he doesnt want a girlfriend, which means that this is as far as it will go. You dont want any pics of you circulating around the internet.

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  • flyingnostalgia
    9 years ago

    i warn you...do not go near this guy. when ever you see him, run 1 km away in whatever direction it is possible,

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  • pusssyeater
    9 years ago

    No. If you have to ask this question, you shouldn't be doing this. When the time is right, you will know.

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  • Reaper101
    9 years ago

    Be careful he may just want a flirt buddy, f*** buddy, or a relationship who knows see where it goes don't close yourself off but don't release control

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  • ygrowup
    9 years ago

    Have fun, don't think so much, just enjoy the moment

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  • Aliceee93
    9 years ago

    Have a bit of fun, if you like him flirting flirt back? If he takes it too far or you feel uncomfortable or you think he is using you ( you usually know by instinct ) then back off :)

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  • derpyderp
    9 years ago

    Yeah fuck it, have some fun but don't get too attached & make sure it's you who stays in charge of things not him.
    You've got the pussy, you've got the power, trust me...

    If you do send body selfies (especially nude or even at all suggestive) leave your face out of it so you can't be identified.

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