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I want to go on a date with this girl, but I'm too afraid to ask her out. I told my brother to ask her to go on a date with me in my stead. What is the best option?
| Do it yourself | 83 | |
| Make your brother do it | 4 | |
| Become a plant | 30 |
What's the worst thing that could happen if she didn't want to go out with you?
She'll pull out a .45 and shoot you dead on the spot?
Pull a huge machete out of her purse and hack you to death?
Run screaming down the hall way pointing back at you yelling "rape. rape, rape"?
Girls really are just people too.
Just say "hey, do you want to do some thing tonight" she will either laugh at you and totally reject you (that's going to happen a lot in life get used to it) or she'll end up smokin your bone in the back seat of your car, what have you got to lose???
Wow at all the negative responses. You all should be ashamed. Don't any of you remember what it was like to be nervous or shy about a girl?
OP, I think it would be okay to ask your brother to see if she might be interested in you, but when it comes down to it you need to ask her out yourself.
if you can't handle asking part, how are you gonna handle the actual date?
Grab her from behind and bend her over and hump her. Not in a rapey way, just do it to establish your dominance.
Unless you are 4 years old, do it yourself. If not, then yes, become a plant because if you can't do it yourself then you are pretty useless.
Most girls like confidence, sending your brother to ask isn't confidence.
It is always best to ask yourself, this said I know the fear of rejection and what not.
But if you don't TRY you will never gain anything.
Surely you COULD take the risk of her dismissing you as a coward by sending your brother to ask her, at least it is better than not asking at all!
No, the worst thing that could happen to him is that she agrees to go out with him and then he finds out 'she' has a penis!
NOOOOO!!!!!!!!!!
Seriously dude ask her yourself that's part of growing up.
All of us guys had to man up and learn to do it.
If you can't even ask a girl out, how could handle going on a date with her?
What's next you're going to ask your brother to have sex with her too?
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One time, when I was in middle school, a guy came up to the lunch table where my friend and I were sitting at and asked my friend if she would go out with a certain other guy. From my point of view, I found that to be incredibly awkward. Also, my friend rejected the offer (though mainly because she didn't really know the other guy).
Basically, you can get your brother to maybe hint about you, but you should do the actually asking yourself.
Write her a note. Turn into a plant. Find a way to communicate with your brother to get him to ask her out. Sit on his night stand and watch them bump uglies. Ask her out yourself and tell her everything you had to go through to ask her out.
I stopped taking this serious when one of your options was "Become a plant". That is an indication you are a troll and you do not really have a problem. Though I am not sure what kind of satisfaction you are getting from this poll. Are you looking for attention or something? Also depending on how old your brother is he might just ask her out himself dont you think?
Stop being a fucking pussy and ask her out. If she finds out that you like her from any other source than yourself then you are beta as hell.