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I liked this girl for an extremely long time and i can't stop thinking about her. Ever since I had a crush on her i couldn't think about dating any one else. The only reason i wont ask her out is because i grew up with her and we are good friends(we were friends since we were like 10) and i don't want to mess that up. So what should i do!
| Grow the balls to ask her out! | 87 | |
| Don't ask her out and stay friends! | 7 |
Just ask if she would like to go out sometime. If she says yes, hooray! If she says no, well you didn't bare your soul or anything so it won't be awkward, your friendship will be fine.
Do you really think you could stand staying friends with her, even though you actually want a deeper connection? In my opinion, You should tell her.
just ask her out on a date but tell her if she feels it would be awkward then you can just pretend it never happened. other wise you'll never be able to move on with your life.
What u could do is jjust talk with her then , just say somem like hey do u ever think about us actually going out together , see how she responds. That way u haven't layed anything on the line.
If she's good dig a bit further and if still good do the do if not right it off.
Once my best friend told me she was in love with me , I shit myself bc I just didn't view her that way.
The biggest probability is that you're already deep in the friend zone, and she will tell you she see's you like a brother, but still there is a small chance and nothing to lose if you ask he, just don't take it hard if she says no.
Lol I feel you bro, I don't know really the right answer but maybe should ask her while you still have the chance hurry up!!!! And take the chance before someone else takes it from you.
Go for it! what will it hurt if you just stay good friends with her and she finds someone else it may cause problems between yalls friendship you'll probably get jealous and hurt seeing her with some other guy. if she says no or says yall should just stay good friends then you at least know you tried and told her how you feel about her.
Exactly what I was going to say. The only thing I would add is that, if you guys truly are close friends, it will not end your friendship. She will either date you, or explain to you that she doesn't have those feelings and she'd rather stay friends. Don't go through life regretting what you didn't try!