Should i agree to live in a female led relationship

I was a stay at home mom for a year or so. Thatshit sucks. A job keeps you sane and gives you a way to meet people.

so she wantsta be onea them 50s mad men style husbands?

double standard much?

If you want to do this fine, do it, if not, not, but having once a very long time ago been a full time housewife, it's really really boring and being financially dependant on a partner creates a power imbalance and you'll be the powerless one.

If you're both working why can't 'you pay someone to do the cleaning and shopping and all the boring stuff? You'd be providing employment and you and your wife would retain your autonomy and independence.

Alternatively, if you can take leave from your own job and try the homemaking bit for a while you'd know how you feel about it.

I think it's fine as long as she isn't demeaning, or degrading you, and as long as you agree to do all the cooking, cleaning, and a lot of the shopping. There's nothing wrong with being a homemaker as long as she isn't treating you badly.

The fact that shes referring to you as the housewife and shes the female lead is the biggest red flag to me. Is she saying you're the housewife in a joking way? Idk yalls situation or if you're into that kinky degrading shit but that almost sounds down right mean to call you housewife. If its something kinky thats all good and well but if its not that a red flag.

You should be happy for your wife’s career success and not attempt to turn her into more of a ‘house wife’ but you definitely shouldn’t give up your dignity and your status as a man by agreeing to that. Both you and your wife should have careers that you aim to progress in.

Wtf is wrong with your wife, dude. I hate this shit, there's such a double standard. If you told your wife you wanted her to stay at home, look after you, and be in a male lead relationship because you're the "breadwinner", and that's how it should be then the feminists would up in a rage, but no, when it's the other way round they don't give a shit.

Tell her to get stuffed, and that you're still a man and not a "housewife".

If I ever agreed to any deal it would involve an additional agreement. That agreement should include a clause that would give you an income similar to any you would have made on your own if you kept working. Divorce happens so you better prepare yourself otherwise you will be in a deficit position. Hopefully you won't need it but if you do you are protected.

Well I would definitely go for that if I were in that situation but that's only because I don't want to work, but if your job is important to you and gives you a sense of purpose and gives you goals to aim for and also a social life then you should obviously keep your job. Leaving your job would only be a benefit to her then, not to the both of you. I can understand her thinking if she doesn't realise how important your job might be to you, but if it is important to you then you shouldn't leave it. But she seems to be putting a lot of emphasis on money, rather than on the other benefits of having a job. If she really wants someone else to take care of the housework fulltime for her, and if she's really earning that much money, then she can hire a maid.

Does she actually say she wants you to be the "house-wife?"

Go for it of you want to. I personally like working though so I would never be a housewife

FLR goes long, she will ask you after that to change your surname to hers also she will probably lock you in a chastity device so she can reduce your testosterone and be a good housemaid, on the other hand if you refuse to go with this lifestyle she could find someone else that maybe can make more money than you, if you love her just surrender to your superior wife, after all she is making all the money in the house.