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is it normal to want to hate my cousin for not making me her maid of honor?
she told me i could be the maid of honor but because im gay the catholic church will thik its wrong
It depends. Are you a practicing Homosexual? Do you practice chastity?
The Church does not hate homosexuals. What it doesnt like is the sin.
If you practice chastity and are faithful to God then you could have been part of the wedding...
She didn't make you the maid of honor for the same reason you're here posting about it. You hate her for this? LAME.
Go tell her priest to stop molesting little boys and then push him down a flight of stairs.
Fuck the Catholic Church. Next time, grab your boyfriend and go make out in a church.
I believe in God, but I have come to hate this evil organization that spreads fear and oppresses and anihilates thinking by oneself, making you go with the crowd.
It is her wedding and her choice when it comes to her maid of honor. No, you should not be angry or hate her for not choosing you. At most, you should be disappointed.
If you are willing to hate her for something petty like this, it's probably no wonder why you weren't chosen... I don't mean any offense, but I do have to say I find your reaction to be rather childish.
A wedding should be a happy occasion... and wedding planning is VERY stressful. I hope you haven't been giving her crap about this.
anyone can be a maid of honor in a Catholic wedding, the Church doesn't say anything about the maid of honor cause she is just an official witness to the marriage
Its normal to b angry but try and understand it is hard when you and someone you care about have conflicting morals its like working for a company that starts selling fur and ur an animal rights activist u dont want to quit ur job but u dont want to b a hypocrite its not just religion she still loves u and that is what matters
tell her, and i hate to be so rude, that shes a pillock, the catholic church does not dissaprove of homosexuality at all, the only main issue is that sex should always be able to cause concetpion.
But the main thing is are you offended by her saying its because your gay or that you're not the maid of honor?
Actually the Catholic religion DOES disapprove of homosexuality. I'm not saying that it is right to believe that but it is what it is.
Now, if she is having her wedding in a Catholic church then she (in theory) should follow the ways of that religion. Just like if she were to be in a Mosque, she SHOULD follow the muslim traditions.
If she is having an outdoor wedding OR a wedding that is not held in a church then she has no right whatsoever to tell you that she can't have you because you are gay and Catholics don't approve.