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Shortly after in my books tends to equate to about two months after the break up.
| Cried | 7 | |
| Went binge eating | 3 | |
| Destroyed everything that reminded you of your ex | 5 | |
| Lurked your ex's social media pages | 5 | |
| Tried to get back together | 7 | |
| Cut your ex out of your life | 7 | |
| Got straight into finding a rebound | 6 | |
| Went into denial | 1 | |
| Other (please comment!) | 8 |
I cut all ties, and said I'm glad that's over.*whew* That was a close one! I don't really have much of any feelings for him either way good or bad.
I pretended like I didn't care as much because it seemed like he didn't. After a day maybe it just hit me. Reminded of all of the memories we had throughout the 3.5 years that we were together. About 2 weeks later the crying stopped....I think. haha. A month later, I'm just okay. Not crying anymore, just fine. It wasn't too harsh because deep down I knew I didn't want to be with him and we weren't working out. Not my fault. It's actually his loss. I was a very good girlfriend to him. Oh well. I will find someone who deserves me :)
Found out he was stringing many girls along so got revenge by deleting some account he had.
He was a douche so I'm so glad I cut him out of my life and got payback. I'm very happy with my new relationship.
My last boyfriend liked to talk during my zombie stories (the bitch)....soooo, I made a pizza and fucking marathoned the walking dead and drank some beer- I did not feel sad.
Got drunk with friends. Talked about how she was crap. Got angry at society. Random car-theme ramble. After that, I danced with some chick and I don't remember the rest. I woke up at home, but I think I screwed that chick.... Photos seem to indicate I was trying to get her in bed.
Felt like crap afterwards, moved on! Happily in a relationship now.
Since it was an unexpected breakup and I got dumped on FB in the middle of the night it was hard on me and put me in a state of chock.
It took ALL my will-power NOT to go to his place instantly and confront him face-to-face and beg him to reconsider.
I cried,lurked, hoped and then after two days I knew it wasn't just a horrible nightmare and I started to focus on EVERYTHING that's bad about him.
A part of me still misses him, we were dating for a year so anything else would be weird. We were supposed to move in together and start a life.
But in the end, I'm way better off without him.
I focused on improving my life. Between work and school. Breaking up with who I thought was the love of my life was unexpectedly beneficial to my mental and physical wellbeing. I became a much more productive individual.
I did a bit of lurking and found a comment on their YouTube account that made me realize that I was glad they weren't my boyfriend anymore. The comment they left I'll never forget. It was: All Canadians are freaks so glad I'm American
Who says that??? It was psychotic! Glad I moved on.
I'm not gonna lie, I lurked and I lurked hard but lurking is stupid because it makes the image of them stay in your head longer so I stopped but it took me a while.