Shes too cool! is it normal i'm not in her league?

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Met this chick off a dating site.
I'm gay and she looks pretty hot! She has sleave of tattoos & is currently in the process of getting a leg piece. She's into Derby Rollar skating ! I don't know how to engage/attract her attention more...I don't have anything amazing to show off..Should I join sone sort of sporty activity? Should i do something adventurous ? I'm quite an out there personality & will give anything a go anyway. I really like this girl though I don't know her hardly and haven't met her. Im not trying to change to much but maybe I should look at becoming a cooler/ more interesting person. Whatcha think ? Any tips ;) Ps- she's definitely gay

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  • (s)aint
    7 years ago

    Well, if you are attracted to girls that looks like that? Absolutely. I have a pretty interesting style myself and I get turned off if someone looks too normal (Then again this doesn´t have to go for everyone)

    You should do it for you, not for a girl.

    Ask her how derby is, initiate conversation.

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  • Genetoi
    7 years ago

    So you haven't met her yet, work on you profile and just making sure it's representing you in the best way. Good pictures and a well written bio can go a long way. Just put your best for forward, initiate conversation, ask her questions, show your interest, trust me, she'll appreciate the effort and that alone can spark something. Especially if she's a derby girl, those girls are down to earth. Good luck! <3 ✌

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      7 years ago

      Thanks for this great piece of advice! I talk with her on Facebook as she hardly uses the dating site we met on. So I haven't tweaked my profile. Thanks for the tips though :) I find this girl a little difficult to figure out, simply because she doesn't always reply to my questions & that's why I proposed that we could go out for coffee to get to know each other last weekend. Sadly she was working. She didn't offer to reschedule nor tell me what days are free so I was rather a little sad about that. How keen is she really or is she just shy? ...For the first time the other day, she messaged me first and sent me pics of her tattoos so I think that's a good sign. Again, its difficult to get her to engross in a longer conversation via text..Yesterday, I summoned up the courage to tell her- You're rather beautiful , just saying :) She said- why thanks, ahaha making me shy shah
      So I think that could be a good sign..IFK its confusing to me. I don't want to bother her too often by always asking questions, even though I really want to get to know her...I feel stuck but I just message every few days or more..

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      • Anonymous Post Author
        7 years ago

        *Idk sorry stupid auto correct is really pissing me off!

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