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My gf wants to break up because she is afraid that I will also treat her like her past relationships. should I accept the breakup
Maybe ya'll should slow things down?
Are there any things that you do that trigger her, or remind her of her abusive ex-partner?
What kind of problems did she have in her past relationships?
How can you not “accept” a breakup? You could try to talk her through it but if she’s done you can’t force her to stay with you. Maybe you should kindly tell her to find a therapist and work through it before the breakup. because if this is the case she’ll never be happy with anyone.
Are you like the others? I mean do you have characteristics that are similar?
Accept the breakup? That's not up to you. Sounds like she might know what she is doing.
Truth is she doesn't like you in that way anymore. Let her fly away dude, you will find someone else.
What do you mean by asking if you should accept the breakup? Do you believe you have the right to force someone to stay in a relationship with you? If so, your ex has made a very good call in deciding she wants to split up.
You obviously feel that her decision isn't fair, and I assume you believe her fears are ill-founded, but it sounds like she's still processing what happened with her previous boyfriend. Your best response would be to calmly explain why you think she's wrong, why you'd like to stay with her and how her decision makes you feel, but then tell her that you respect her right to make this decision and walk away.
she always says that i`m not the course but those thoughts just come to her anytime