She wants a baby, only been dating for a few months

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From the start im going to say that I already know it would be stupid to have a baby with someone I've been dating for a short time. I just want peoples thoughts and why does she want one so soon?

The story:

Were in our late 20s. She use to mother this baby boy of her friends for years (long story) which might contribute to her "baby fever" Anyway at this time we have really connected. We have been though enough where I can say that she is a great person, trustworthy and overall would make a great life partner. For a while I questioned if she would be the kind of person to have a baby with me then leave me but after a lot of talk and knowing her history I don't think she is the kind to do something like that. If we had a baby she even said she would marry me before hand.

I don't plan to have a baby under a year. She isnt immature but her wanting a baby so soon I just had to get a second opinion especially from any girls on here. Why do you think she wants a baby so soon? How can she already feel so ready with a guy she hasn't even known for 6 months?

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  • Tealights
    7 years ago

    Run. However, if you want to stay, ask her to slow it down a bit.

    Most likely she's rushing things along for personal reasons such as age, avoiding loneliness, status, and to have something to boast about with friends/family. I understand that she's making herself out to be a nearly perfect companion, but the fact that she's rushing isn't a good sign. Plus, you really can't have a happy long lasting relationship after having a baby with someone you've only known for 6 months. You two hardly know each other well enough to make such serious commitments.

    In my opinion, you should always wear a condom during sex. Even if she says that she has birth control, just wear it to be sure, because no matter how sensible she sounds, the fact that she's willing to rush with a guy she barely knows leaves a lot of possibilities open.

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  • Rusty-Rider
    7 years ago

    Get her a puppy.

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  • Farty_fartface
    7 years ago

    You have to look at her friends. That probably has a big influence on her own decision making.

    If she's wife and mother material, I wouldn't question it so much. A marriage/starting a family can just as easily work out after 6 months of dating as if it was 6 yrs of dating.

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  • mysistersshadow
    7 years ago

    She just wants a baby. How long you've been together isn't part of the equation.

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  • Justmehere
    7 years ago

    Run.Now..I dated a woman that, after 10 days..Sat back on my couch, looked dead-center with her gorgeous green eyes, and said "Why don't we get the big ring?"..Followed by.."I really want another baby".. Ten days! I was able to redirect both, but, that was the start of my rethinking the relationship..Come on. A week and a half? And she wants a big ring and baby??

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  • lc1988
    7 years ago

    In the words of the great philosopher Ace of Base: "Alll that she wants is anotha babyyyy"

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  • matthewkoehler
    7 years ago

    her internal clock is tickin...haven't you seen My Cousin Vinny?

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  • forgotusernameagain
    7 years ago

    She's in her late 20's 'nuff said

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