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My GF dont want me to touch her breasts coz she thinks they are small .
I honestly think she is fine and beautiful. But she rarely allow me to go inside her bra .
Is she nervous ,? Or lack of confidence ? Idk . Someone help me : how to make her Response normally .
I tried convincing her so much but she doesn’t listen to me and her that FEAR never goes off.
That's too bad. I happen to LOVE small titties, along with medium, and big ones too for that matter. Perhaps they are very sensitive. Perhaps you don't touch her nicely. If it's a deal breaker for you, move on. But DO NOT just touch like you are entitled to do so. No means no.
She allows me to touch from outside , thats ok for her . But she dont want me to go inside her bra . I want her to build some confidence on her . She looks totally fine though.
Are you having sex? Not sure how old you are, i suppose that could be playing into this as well. If you guys are younger, she may not be reafy to take that step. Be patient.
If they are small and she is self conscious about that then she probably wears a padded bra. So in her head when you touch the outside of the bra you won't think they are too small, but if you get in there and feel the real ones then you will be disgusted at how tiny they are. I know this isn't how you would react at all, but in her head that's how it would play out.
Judging by the way your spelling is atrocious. I would say that you shouldn't be touching anyone's breast until you're get your first boner.
I got very small breasts too. I'm a 32A size and it has gotten smaller since I've stopped breastfeeding. They're cute.
Girls are very sensitive about their breast size, especially at a young age. Don't force her, but try to make her feel that you love her no matter what she looks like. That kind of love and trust may only be built with time, and perhaps you just need to move at her pace.
Excuse me ? What did i do ? I aint disrespecting her .
I am trying to make her feel comfortable. I dont have any issue with her chest size .
10 years with my wife. She has small titties. She rarely let's me touch them. I think normal.
I think wear her down. Compliment her breasts and tell her a lot of men like smaller ones.
And ask her to allow you to touch them, but allow her to get ready for it, or she chooses the time place occasion.
I know how feels . I will never let a boy see mine until they get much bigger.
She's insecure man. Just comfort her. With time she'll probably let you feel her tits and that.
if she feels insecure about them you can do a few things a] convince her that you love them and that theyre fine, it will be hard to convince but as times passes it may be easier b] accept what she has said and dont bother trying to appease her. she doesnt seem to be sure about her breasts and thats fine but obviously means you cant physically embrace them so leaving it be is another option and c] suggest a boob job, if you think she will benefit positively from it and be happier. it may cost a little but if you think she'll be happy then thats what counts
Most small breasted girls want to have big boobs, so it's normal they are a bit self conscious... Do your best to respect her wishes and to show her you love her the way she is and she is the only one for you. When she gets comfortable, you'll both have the time of your lives.
My girlfriend is very thin and has small breasts too. Most of my friends would use the word "flat" to describe her... She was a bit anxious at first, but when she learned I love every bit of her sexy little body and that small breasts drive me crazy... Her breasts feel so good, they are very sensitive and knowing your girl will look like she's in her 30s when she's actually in her late 40s is the best thing ever.
Unfortunately a lot of women have a complex about this even if they arent that small and even then many find that attractive.
I dated a girl that was so obsessed with getting fake tits that it became a serious problem and a big factor in us breaking up. I guess it's just some body issues like anything else.
Some people think they're fat when they're not and become bulimic. Some people can't stop working out until they're mister or miss universe. Some people think they'd be happy with or without a penis.
She might not be in a healthy place to have a quality relationship until she can work out her body issues. Support her the best you can, remind her how beautiful she is, but at the end of the day she may need counseling if it is too bad and you should step aside so she can work through it.
How she's responding is "normal" already; normal for her, and that's all that matters.
If feeling breasts is currently your overwhelming obsession in life and you're not satisfied with the limits your girlfriend places on this, then you have a choice: either accept that's how she is and live with it, or move on to another girl who's willing to let you go as far as you'd like.
As others have said, girls can be very insecure about their breast sizes, particularly since we're surrounded these days with images of women with ginormously inflated phoney hooters.
The way you can make her feel more comfortable about her body and you is by telling her you like what she has and you're satisfied with what she allows you to do.