She said these things about my cousin??? iin?
Me and a friend of mine went to a party, she's very religious and firm in her beliefs. She met my older cousin, who is 24 and not married. She's also pregnant. The dad shows no sign of involvement as he dumped her when he found out. My cousin told my friend this straight off because she likes everyone she meets to know the situation so there's no confusion about it, but my friend almost choked on her drink, and told her it would be ideal if she married. My cousin doesn't want to right now, she wants to focus on her baby more than meeting men.
My friend walked straight off, and when I went after her she called my cousin insecure and ignorant to 'God's plan'. Right to my face. In the weeks following, she would say these things frequently. And things like "That kid is as good as Satan's now." or "She'll go to hell."
I kept reminding her that my cousin genuinely thought she was gonna marry this guy and he dumped HER, but she wouldn't have it. I completely respect religion, though I am an atheist. But I think this is OTT and obssessive. IIN?