She said she is not ready to date yet !

So I met this girl, and I totally fell for her. It took me a lot of guts to finally ask her if she wants to go on a proper date and her reply was, " I'm not ready to date yet" . I'm crushed. Wot does not being ready to date really means? Does it means it's over?

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  • russellnb

    Many people think of dating as having sex. Perhaps she does not wish the pressure or the experience. Perhaps if you tell her waht you want, such as, movie, sititng and talking, going to museumes, studying together she may fid it interesting. Tell her you are not interested in sex, if it is true.

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  • DrinaVonCheez

    Sorry to say but yeah its a nice way to say no. Or she really could not be ready to date. Like she enjoys being single right now, doesn't want the stress of dating, etc. Girls are like that. Be patient but not too persistent, give her space and when she's ready she'll come to you..hopefully.

    Keep your head up :]

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  • --ash--

    It means Loser! She must be lesbian.

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  • Trismegistus

    It means:Get your hands off my clit buddy!

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  • ManaX

    She may either not like you that way, or really not be ready to date. Maybe you would be her first and she's scared to mess it up.

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  • jamesastonn

    She probably doesn't like you in that way, sorry man :/

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  • geneticfreak

    Thank u so much for the replies. Well now that my heart's been crushed. I have to look for distraction. I don't think I have ever liked someone this much :( hope I can get over it soon. Thank u guys alot :) u rock !!

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  • It means she doesn't really like you. She said that because she didn't want to be mean and just say no

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