She offered me out but now isn't really replying to me on fb , iin?

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I'm on this dating site & messaged a few girls, gave them my name & told them that if they can't reply and want to chat, they can add me on Facebook :) One girl saw my message & added me. She's really beautiful & our first convo was nice & smooth. She asked where about do I live as we should go for coffee :) The next day I messaged her and she replied & asked how my day was, I told her & despite reading it, she didn't reply. Its like she's become disinterested or something :/ She doesn't read some of my messages and the only reason I send a message is that it seems like she wants to chat as she asks me a question... I don't understand? Shall I be patient & wait or call it quits. We have only been Facebook friends for 3 days but I have been there before, where someone pretends to be interested at first then I'm doing most the chasing...I would really love to meet in person. She does seem quite different to my nature & quite out of my league. What should I do?

Move on 12
She's a bitch 5
She's a user 2
Give her time, she maybe busy 4
Other 1
She's not interested anymore for some unknown reason 7
Organise a day to hang out 2
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  • Crow
    7 years ago

    She might've been busy the first time she didn't respond promptly, but constantly sending follow up messages when she hasn't replied looks desperate and she might've been turned off.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      7 years ago

      Im aware of this so I haven't ! The next day I just sent a message explaining if she doesn't cancel the subscription in time (on the dating site), itl automatically charge her. She responded & said yeah I have hahaha thanks. I said algds, then she asked how my day was ? I replied, she saw my message then didn't reply. Next day I sent a funny text song lyric "Say something or I'm giving up on you " She laughed and responded with the lyrics "What do u mean" hahaha etc ! I asked what's she up to and that was it !..

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      • Crow
        7 years ago

        She's a good sport for responding with "what do you mean", but honestly "say something, I'm giving up on you" isn't funny - it's cringey.

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        • Ipooprainbows
          7 years ago

          Um I doubt it ! She didn't have to respond at all! Besides if she thought I was being weird she could have easily deleted me , so I feel youre wrong there

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          • (s)aint
            7 years ago

            i´m a girl and i´d cringe so hard at those lyrics ...

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            • Ipooprainbows
              7 years ago

              Wow that's sad u obviously don't have one ounce of humor. In fact, that puts me off her if she can't even take a joke!
              But wait!!! She obviously did as she commented ahahaha what do u mean ahaha . She could have easily deleted me but she hasn't so there.

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          • Ipooprainbows
            7 years ago

            Plus i was being quirky! Girls like a funny person rather than just sending a question mark or not saying anything at all.

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            • Gurl_Power
              7 years ago

              Honestly, you are in the right for reaching out to her and initiating continuous contact and trying to keep it light hearted and flirty....but at the same time she probably won't respond for at least a few more days, if at all.

              No matter what angle your male brain tries to understand this you will keep failing to.

              Don't waste your time trying to do that.

              If she's as hot as you describe she will almost certainly shit test you more, which is a total waste of your time as a man. She almost certainly has other guys orbiting around her also that she keeps in limbo just to prop up her own insecurity.

              Do you wish to be "friend zoned"? All hot chicks have them. The hotter they are, the more guys there are.

              You sent the last message, correct? Leave it alone. She'll either respond or she won't. As of right now, move onto the next one. If this one responds, go from there, if she doesn't, she wasn't worth YOUR VALUABLE TIME AS A MAN.

              You're a man, not a toy to play with.

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  • Smokey1D
    7 years ago

    'She's' probably a fat fifty year old bloke, grooming you on the net until you let down your guard and go to meet 'her.' Dating sites are notorious for this. Be careful!

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    • Ipooprainbows
      7 years ago

      Thanks for your concern ! I'm fully aware of this so gave her Facebook a good stalking! She's definitely legit! We even went to the same high school :)

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