She is 4 years younger than me

This is so not pedophilia. Pedophilia is an adult interested in children younger than 13. 18 to 14 is high school senior to freshman. Not that distant and pretty damn common. When I was a senior my girlfriend was 14. We didn't make headlines anywhere. She was a virgin when I met her also. Her parents had a pool with an island bathhouse, where we would often go for a little off-shore drilling.

You didn't say where you currently live, but you might wanna check if it's legal to have sex with a 14 year-old to begin with.

Stay away from her pal. I'm willing to bet any dad who owns an ATV track also owns a shotgun.

it's normal. i know 2 couples like this. i mean it's a little weird but as long as no one knows you do it, go ahead.

THAT IS SO NORMALL HUN..I AM 18 AND I AM ORIGINALLY FROM EUROPE..OVERTHERE ALL OF THE GUYS ARE AT LEAST 3 YEARS OLDER THAN THE GIRL..SO IF YOU LIKE HER, DONT WORRY ABOUT IT. HAVE FUN, YOU WONT STAY YOUNG FOREVER.

There is no need to rush into sex with this girl! Tell her you just want to be friends, or if you have feelings for her take her out on dates and develop a real relationship with her before taking advantage!

My mom and dad are ten years apart and have 7 kids so i think its perfectly normal

Well, consider this. Most cultures throughout history and the world would have laughed at the idea of thinking there was anything wrong with an 18 year old being romantically involved with a 14 year old. The "age of consent" set by modern society is arbitrary and ridiculous; such things should not affect your feelings.

Its illegal.. Go ahead if you want to. But just know, that girl could run and tell adults after you've done it. I've heard it happen A LOT. So yeah, go ahead and you'll be getting a ride straight to prison for rape. Because 9 times out of 10 thats all them little girls do.

you will have lots of sex,,,in jail.

4 years at this age is extremely different than 4 years say at 30. STAY AWAY!!!

when I was 15 a boy I liked gave me his number. he was older, kinder unlike most boys. so I figured he liked me. as i got flirtier he got flirty back. I wasnt actually liking him but he kept flirting. I felt pressure to keep up with him. One day he asked to meet and I agreed. i though long and hard before I left and I was CONVINCED I had to go. i never did go and now, after we came to an understanding (he wanted to stop takling not hookup) we are great pals. tell her u dont like her or she may be in the same position as me.

well I'm in the reversed position from you, (except I don't want sex, I just text him all the time, I guess I'm pretty annoying HA!) but yeah, I wouldn't rush into sex, tell her you'd like to spend time with her first as just friends or maybe even dating. But make sure you can deal with her immaturity if you do decide to act on it, not saying she is immature but compared to you, then.. yeah.. just take it easy
all the best:)

if your having doubts on wanting to be with her for any other reason besides the age then leave her alone. its nice that she is into something you like, but your just gonna hurt her if your never gonna be with her. she is young and prolly says dirty things cause she thinks that is the only thing to keep you around. dont take something pure from her, unless you really like her, it may seem nice thinking about having sex with her but you will break her heart buddy. find someone a little older maybe

PAEDO

i get where youre coming from man but if u have sex with that girl u r a PAEDO

Stay away u pedophile there are plenty of beautiful n wonderful girls your age!!

Well, since you are considered a pedophile, i would stay about from her. I'm sure her daddy wouldn't appreciate this, if you were younger, i would say go for it.

If you value racing at that particular track, stay the hell away from her.

Stay away from her, unless you want to be in jail