She doesn't fit in with herself

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So I have a friend who just doesn't make sense.
She's such a deep thinker.. So smart and wise. She says what people think beneath the surface.
She has a unique face. A beautiful one at that. The older she gets, the more striking she looks.
She's kind, funny, surreal.. The list goes on.
People notice her individuality and amazing qualities.
But there's been things about her that have never quite fit in with this pretty puzzle.
Back in the day.. Three years ago.. She fell in love with an older, married teacher. The love was unrequited. (She has had more than one affection that was unrequited, despite her beauty on the exterior and interior.) She was 14 (she is bi-sexual.) The woman was in her 40's. She'd follow her, write love letters.. And be a child, she was a child. She couldn't handle her feelings. Eventually she was expelled. She was crushed beyond repair and the teacher was a bitch, the info goes on.
Anyway, she's great and this sort of shit is over.
Her past.. Difficulties and rejection however.. Have never made sense.
If you saw her walking down the street you wouldn't consider if for a second.
My question: Is it normal.. Or.. Does it make sense in it's own way.. That a girl like this would have a past so.. Ill fitting?

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  • NoraBaker
    12 years ago

    So, in short, your friend is aging gracefully at 17?

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    • NeuroNeptunian
      12 years ago

      I think you meant "In short, you're aging gracefully at 17". Fer shiznit. v.v

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      • NoraBaker
        12 years ago

        Actually I did mean "you". The shiznitest!!! ^.~

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      12 years ago

      No?

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    she might have been in the wrong place at the wrong time

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    You made it sound too scripted. I don't believe any of this.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      12 years ago

      All too true. :/

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  • _edinboro
    12 years ago

    I think most people like that have ill-fitting pasts. You aren't born wise.

    My friends consider me one of the smartest and bubbliest people around, and I had an abusive childhood and have struggled with bisexuality since before middle school. It just happens.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      12 years ago

      You are right.
      She's made so much progress and really grown into herself.
      She doesn't get rejected anymore because she's learnt when and when not to express her feelings.
      She's wise and honestly like a grown up and she's still in her teens.
      She's gone from like the rest, surrounded by bad luck, to so much more.

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  • Anonymous Post Author
    12 years ago

    Wow.. I find it so interesting that no one believes this..
    I was hoping to give her some answer but I think this will make her feel worse.

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    OP is trying to hard, not quite a troll, but certainly not discreet. An ill fitting past huh? Show me someone who DOESNT have an ill fitting past and I will show you a liar.

    14 yrs old and fell in love with an older, married teacher, a 40 yr old married women at. My God, that sounds exactly like my life, well except for that threesome I had with Nancy and Ronald Reagan (they should have renamed it the Reagan monument if you know what I mean).

    Silly but worth the read, I guess.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      12 years ago

      This is going to make her feel like shit..
      Or an interesting character..
      I don't know

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  • Saycheese
    12 years ago

    I'm guessing you are talking about yourself?

    Nobody can see anybodys true feelings except themselves, through time.

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  • purplegirl22
    12 years ago

    I don't buy any of this.

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  • yeoldefletcher
    12 years ago

    Yeah right

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  • Anime7
    12 years ago

    Someone's past can shape them into how they are in the present. I think the problem here is that you expected a sort of rancorous result to come from such unrequited love but sometimes that doesn't happen. Some people handle pain in a passive way.

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