Sharing your insignificant other

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For an example, I have a friend who would be up for having her own playtime with my subby partner, doing a lot of the things I know she's sure I do. I think she'd totally enjoy completely trashing someone and I'm (part jealously) certain my sub would go for it. I also think I'd enjoy watching and perhaps joining in. Maybe even getting more subs involved too. But can this really work?

Don't like sub/dom scenarios of any kind 5
Would let others trash your sub but on your terms only 4
Would double dom even without keeping overall control 1
Would willingly act a part in the subs own sharing fantasies 6
Would share watching videos of others but not real life 2
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  • jsnpq
    7 years ago

    It can totally work. Remember, lots of open communication is absolutely necessary. Everyone involved needs to be on the same page about boundaries, expectations, preferences and desires. But yeah, I have done it. It's done all the time. You can do it and if you are like me you will totally get off on watching your sub get used and abused. It's a different perspective, you might experience pleasure from her experiencing pleasure (compersion). You might even learn a thing or two.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      7 years ago

      Thank you. Makes good sense. I don't have any doubts about the pleasure all round or about the learning. But I don't want to get taught too much of a lesson, given I'm supposed to be the one in charge. That, and once you've clearly articulated something you can't unsay it.

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      • jsnpq
        7 years ago

        You are welcome, have fun bro.

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  • Anonymous Post Author
    7 years ago

    The votes are very much appreciated. I stupidly missed out at least one obvious option and didn't properly clarify some of the others, but I was fascinated and some of my thinking now seems a bit mean. Thank you.

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