Sexual fantasies

My only fantasy is that my partner is someone who would never write a shitty, boring post like this.

Fantasies are a normal and healthy part of good sex life. After a certain period of time, sex can become too easy and monotonous; you know everything about how to turn your partner on and please them, so it's all too easy and over too soon.
Fantasizing or role playing in no way would "be insulting him anyway". You don't have to imagine you're with someone else, just in different circumstances. You are the damsel he saves from certain death as; a firefighter, a soldier, a pirate captain, ANYTHING. Or you could be the nurse that nurses him back to health from the brink of death, etc. Whatever will make your sex life more fun and interesting.
Your imagination is limitless, two imaginations doubly so, therefor your sex can be too.

If he asked you to put your hair in dreadlocks, would you say 'Jah'?

I feel sorry for you OP, the brain is the most erogenous zone.

I don't mean to be insulting or anything, but that seems very strange to me. Three possible explanations come to mind:

1. You're basically asexual.
2. You're defining "fantasy" too narrowly.
3. You're already living your fantasy.

Do any of those sound true at all?

As long your relationship is happy this way, yes it's normal. Just don't hold his standards as being the same as yours. Meaning if he wants to change things up, keep an open mind. Be willing to experiment with him. Within your own moral code, of course.

well,you only live once,so loosen up and try it all!!

I feel sorry for your partner.... I'm sorry but in the beginning this may be okay... but through years of a relationship you have to broaden your sexual horizons.

What if your bf asked you to dress as a sheep and say 'baa' would you?

I can't quite say it's normal but... *hands over bag of nachos*, you can. You just have to let other people in

Sometimes it hurts to blow a load too soon before or after taking a pee.

fantasies are a great way to boost sex talk dirty to your wife talk othermans cock to your wife and tell her how it would be to have another cock in your wifes hole it is great way to boost sex i mean dirty talk.fantasise your wife with another man you can have a good climax in masturbation or sex

Well, after being married over forty years, you sound like you are about my age. I would say that if you want to be married over forty years that you will loosen up and let your partner fantasize if that what it takes for him. Of course, everyone is different, but I can't imagine being less than excited for the most active role in you sex life.