Sexual encounter with....my professor?

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I'm a 21 year old girl in college. I do average things such as go to bars. Apparently so does my professor because the other night he happened to be at the bar I was at. When I saw him I recognized him from somewhere but couldn't completely put my finger on it. Having had a drink, I was feeling friendly so I said to him "Hey you look familiar." It wasn't until I heard his voice that I realized who he was, and he recognized me from class too. After we awkwardly chatted a bit, we actually started talking and having a good time together. One thing led to another and the next thing that happened was me in his car giving him head. The worst part is we weren't even drunk, we each only had 2 drinks. How should I act around him now?

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  • Para-Normal
    9 years ago

    Not to take responsibility from your part in this, but it is common ethical standard that college professors abstain from having such relations with students. He crossed a serious ethical line there.

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  • princepericles
    11 years ago

    Assuming you were not coerced in any way, send him a message saying that you think it's probably best that you both forget it ever happened. You might also mention that you don't expect any favours or special treatment. He's probably worried about losing his job.

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  • Fartyr
    11 years ago

    Bad for your social development my dear. Date people your own age, I did the same stuff. Had daddy issues and a bad childhood. It's bad for you later in life, trust me.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      11 years ago

      Thanks for the advice.

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  • 1000yrVampireKing
    11 years ago

    Well you should not be screwing your teacher. Also your teacher is an adult so not odd to see two "Adults" at a bar. So I do not understand why that is so shocking. Also you should not be giving him head but I would say not to bring it up anymore. It might be awkward but I can bet he would want to keep it secret too. Unless he is into you which I would say reject the idea since it is unprofessional and he could lose his job over it.

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  • Shackleford96
    11 years ago

    The same as you did before.

    This is relatively normal in my experience.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      11 years ago

      Really? well now I don't feel like such a hussy.

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