Sexual arousal to other girls while in a relationship.

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Okay, so, let me begin by saying I've been in a relationship for a while, and I can safely say I truly love this girl. She is anything I've ever wanted, and so much more. We've never done anything sexual at all, and I'm okay with that. She can do those types of things when she's ready. But, problem is, my body wants it. Of course, I get extremely aroused by her. And she's the only one I really want. But every once in a while, I'll glance at another female. My body may get aroused slightly, but I don't want anyone else. All I want is her. And I feel terrible whenever I look at other girls or anything. I don't want to. So, question is, is it normal to be sexually aroused by other girls, even if you don't want to be, while you're in love with one and she is what you truly want?

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89% Normal
Based on 129 votes (115 yes)
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  • so_damn_unpretty
    13 years ago

    I thought your post was really sweet. I myself feel bad when I see a guy and cant help but find him attractive, even though I wasn't necessarily checking him out or anything (I'm also in a very happy relationship) I think the fact that you are so faithful to your woman, to the point where you want to keep even your eyes loyal to her is a good thing and can only benefit your relationship. Also kudos on waiting untill SHE is ready! It's awesome that you respect her and I know when you two reach that point it will be very special for both of you :)

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    • UFSniper
      13 years ago

      @so_damn_unpretty
      Thank you for your comment. It helped me feel a lot better. And also, I thank everyone else for their comments as well. They helped too. =D

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  • PsychoDJ
    14 years ago

    Dude, your Horney just like the rest of us.You are 100%% normal.

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  • tommybowers
    14 years ago

    Dude, your a guy! No matter how much you love het or how passionate you are about her physically, YOURE A GUY. That doesn't stop just because your settled/attracted to another female. The key is not acting on it. That is called commitment

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  • Duckra5521
    12 years ago

    This is 100% normal. No matter the relationship or what goes on in it, your human male brain will still work the same. Boobs and butt and a pretty face is still the same as it was when you were single, your brain still recognizes it as a female and activates feelings of desire, even if purely sexual and lacking of anything emotional. Dont worry, as long as you dont cheat on her or betray her, you're fine. Btw I really respect you for being so loyal to your girl, Im the same way.

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  • misslonglegs
    7 years ago

    I know how u feel I'm bi sexual I love my boyfriend will probably end up married to him but still get excited about other girls especially my best friend she is lesbian and yes we have had sec together a couple times

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  • littlemisstrouble
    7 years ago

    I may only be 15 but I have sexual feelings towards my best friend but love my boyfriend and having sex with him

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  • Mammyshag
    7 years ago

    I fancy my sister in law and I'm engaged to her sister my sister in law turns me on big time so yes it is normal

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  • [Old Memory]
    14 years ago

    She's not a guy

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  • WayOutThere
    14 years ago

    This is perfectly normal. Don't feel bad about it, and don't let anyone else make you feel guilty. That's how the male human body works. Your girlfriend ought to be ok with this too, but she might not understand because girls respond differently. Once you start having regular sex with her, it won't happen as often.

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  • norMall
    14 years ago

    it never goes away ,sadly...i was raised by a single mother (:
    I felt very guilty when looking at other girls(sexually) while in love,but that's how it works,u will get aroused,all u can do is just not to cheat her,although u can even control ur sexual arousal by external sources if u convince urself.

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  • HitlerSausageSlave
    14 years ago

    Why do you even ask that question? It's so obviously normal. You must have been raised by a single mother.

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  • CharlotteLily
    13 years ago

    yeah not gunna lie shes gunna get a bit boring after a while

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