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I have got two friends who do use condoms, but they have told me they have sex without it for a bit, like, the guy puts it in for 5 minutes at first, and then he puts the condom on, so he can cum inside her.
Is that normal? Isn't the point of a condom to prevent illness and babies? And by doing that, you can still be infected by shit or there might be precum? Or am I wrong?
One "cum" may contain as many as 100 million sperm. The reason precum is a risk is because it may "wash out" and carry clumps of sperm left in the penis. This is evident to any guy who goes for a piss straight after cumming, it can be a bit cloudy. Precum will only contain a few hundred sperm, but technically still is a risk. A very, very low risk, but a risk all the same.
As for STDs, yes there is a risk the moment he puts his bare penis inside her, if he has anything. Problem is, he may not know it, since men can be carriers of chlamydia without showing any symptoms (because they don't have the parts for chlamydia to affect). However, herpes can be transferred without even having sex, as the virus can be transferred across contact with the inner thighs. This isn't some Kansas idea of sex ed, it's fact. A risk you have to realize, you can't ignore it.
You're right to be cautious. Unless you are with someone and you both agree that if you/she get pregnant, you'll deal with the consequences together (whatever consequences those might be), then play safe.
Your future is not worth the risk.
Your friends just simply like sex without a condom on. They're trying to look for loopholes in the safe sex practice, but failing miseribly. Eventually, they're going to get a girl pregnant with pre-cum, or accidently cum inside her fully.
Just let your friends be stupid, they're going learn their lesson when they become unexpected fathers, go through their first serious pregnancy scare, or mature enough to look back and realize how crazy they were being.
I would guess (no scientific study or anything to back this up) that as a contraceptive practice, this would have about the same failure rate as the withdrawal method... which is to say pretty high. Also, as others said, using the condom only part of the time is almost completely useless for STD protection.
That said, pulling out does work... sometimes, and I'm sure this works too... sometimes.
Never take the risk. If u are like me and want to taete different girls. With ur wife only fuck without condoms but im case of other girls use condom. I fucked many girls inside my car or even inside a toilet whom I donot know. Many maids I fucked in my house and so it is not safe without condom.
you cant get pregnant the first 100 times you have sex so it's all good. Let the guy squirt his man seed deep inside the whore hole, it's safe....
Use a condom if they have stds (GET TESTED, BOTH OF YOU)
Or just do it on her period. Cant get pregnant then, plus girls like it cause it canmake their period less stressful.
These friends of yours and their female sexual partners are exposing themselves to the risk of unplanned pregnancies and STI's. There's no excuse these days for this sort of wilful ignorance.