Sex with my ex

55% Normal
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The father of my two daughters split up with me about a year and a half ago after a six year relationship, but we have maintained a sexual relationship ever since. I know this situation isn't exactly normal and defiantly not healthy for me but I don't really know how to get out of it, the only advice I have been given is things like 'sever all contact' which isn't really an option for me as I have to maintain a level of contact with him for my daughter's sakes; I'm 23 and have never met my own dad, and though I don't consider myself to have 'daddy issues' I don't want my daughters to not have their dad in their lives, and I definitely don't want to be the one responsible for this. And just for the record getting back with him is not an option I would consider either...do I love him? If I'm completely honest, yes, but he is not trustworthy and I have accepted that I have never be happy with him and we don't have a future together.

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55% Normal
Based on 11 votes (6 yes)
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  • cupcake_wants
    11 years ago

    There r more fish in the sea! Find a new guy that really knows what he's doing (most likely older guy with experience) then tellur ex u found a bigger and better cock.

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  • Terence_the_viking
    11 years ago

    Yep everyone does it.

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  • dom180
    11 years ago

    I don't know if I understand the situation. Just because you want the two of you to raise your kids together does not mean you need to continue having sex with him. Why can't you just refuse him sex?

    I'm not trying to be condescending or lacking in empathy, I just don't understand.

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  • Phycokitty
    11 years ago

    its understandable your comfortable together my grandparents still love each other they just cant b together they dont work

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