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In four days I will be having sex with my boyfriend after nearly one year apart, because he was overseas.
My friends told me he'll cum nearly straight away.
Is there anything I should do / tell him so he doesn't feel bad or he doesn't actually cum straight away?
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Don't fool yourself.
I'm not saying he has cheated on you but he has almost definitely masturbated in that year. If he has had sex with you already, he is not going to be adverse to masturbating.
Do you two talk about masturbating? If not, you probably should, and clear the air. Guys don't like telling girlfriends they masturbate because that MAY open a can of worms about what he was thinking about whilst he was jerking off.
He has (i'm nearly sure), or at least he has said something about it before whenever we had a dirty chat or i sent some... special pictures, but, even if he's masturbated every week or whatever, isn't it different -still- when we actually get back together and go to bed?
I'm pretty sure he hasn't cheated, i do trust him (and anyway there weren't that many girls where he was). Doesn't matter though, he does call me and say he can't get to see me, and that makes me happy
I didn't mean to insinuate he has cheated, I just wanted to make sure my comments weren't taken the wrong way.
If a guy has jerked off within a day or two of you getting together, he should last long enough to allow you to reach orgasm before he finishes. I don't know about your relationship (it's not important that I know), but generally when a guy finishes, that's it, unless he's willing to finish you off orally or something.
If you want to be "safe", make sure he rubs one out the night before. That way he's not too ready to go, but also it wasn't too soon before that he's got any soreness from masturbating.
"isn't it different -still- when we actually get back together?"
Ordinarily, no, but I'll be honest (and not me bragging, if anything it's probably a bad thing) I have not gone a whole year without sex since I was 13, so I don't honestly know how it would be.
Your best bet is him wearing a condom (which I'm sure you're sensible enough to do anyway). That should reduce much of his sensitivity.
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Yeah first thing you should do is stop listening to your friends.
Most men just don't realize that even though they think they have a relationship with one female, her actions, thoughts, responses etc are a conglomeration of all of his gf's friends and probably her mother too.
Does your boyfriend know he's actually in a relationship with you and your friends?
Haha, he does know I'm quite open, but if he know the things i have shared, he'd probably be pissed...
Yeah lets just hope he share just as much and if not more about you to his friends.