Sex still hurts

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Okay so I haven't had sex in a while actually cause of long distance relationship but it's the same way for masturbation too.

Anyways. I haven't been a virgin since I was 16 and I'm 21 now. I haven't had A LOT of sex or anything but I find it still hurts sometimes. When I feel around I think I can feel my hymen? I'm not sure. But it has a few tears in it and feels scarred. It doesn't always hurt and I'm always wet enough so it's not that. So what the hell, is it my hymen still and why the hell won't it go away?

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  • zenji
    12 years ago

    I had the same problem. It took a long time for intercourse to feel comfortable, let alone pleasurable. Your partner needs to know this. Ask him to go as slow as he possibly can. Communicate about it, it does get better, then great. If it doesn't become comfortable after regular sex, I mean, like once a day for several weeks, then you should probably consult a gynecologist.

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  • dot_r_loser
    13 years ago

    Well since you haven't had a lot of sex in a while maybe you need to take masturbation slowly, and then start building back up to sex with your boyfriend. If things still don't get better after a while, and the pain doesn't go away.I say go to your gyno. and get it checked out, don't worry though, from what it sounds like, I don't think you need to stress out. just chill out. :)

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