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Does it take you girls a long time to get an orgasm? I have never had an orgasm when I'm having sex. But can achieve it on my own when I'm by myself.
The longest Ive had sex for was about 30-40ish minutes and i get so irritated that I can't climax to the point where I sometimes just fake it. I have tried oils and lubes.. is there something wrong with me?
| Yes it takes me a long time to have an orgasm | 19 | |
| No I orgasm very easily | 23 | |
| I will comment | 4 |
It's pretty normal not to during vaginal intercourse. If that doesn't do it for you introduce other methods.
Let me put it to you this way, if he don't go down I don't want him around.
It's easy and quick for me. It wasn't always though, younger me was too self-concious and timid to "let go".
If my boyfriends fucking me whilst I am using a vibrator on my clit it literally only takes me 30 seconds to orgasm and I can have up to 3 of them when we have sex.
I can easily orgasm by masturbating with porn, but none of my ex's ever managed to get me off, and I can't orgasm with regular sex and oral isn't amazing for me. My current boyfriend was inexperienced, but he's the only one that's managed to get me off, and that's mainly due to using a vibrator with his finger / with penetration.
He should be engaging you in some foreplay that focuses on your clit or rubbing your clit during sex or even you can rub your clit during sex.
There are plenty of women who can't orgasm through intercourse alone. But they do while receiving oral sex.
I never want to come quickly. I enjoy a good long session. My husband treat me well and knows how to push my buttons.