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Which aspect do you value more when it comes to SEX with a LONG-TERM partner?
| I´m female - emotional connection - intimacy, feeling loved etc. | 26 | |
| I´m male - emotional connection - intimacy, feeling loved etc. | 35 | |
| I´m female - satisfaction of physical sexual needs - orgasms etc. | 10 | |
| I´m male - satisfaction of physical sexual needs - orgasms etc. | 12 |
I'm male and for me the biggest thing was mutual desire. If we could still do things that made the other speechless, it meant we were still both enjoying ourselves. That's why she was my longest relationship and also why I should have married the hell out of her.
I am a male and if I do not get her to orgasm, I feel I have let myself down lol. I am disappointed if my girl does not get satisfied because I sure as hell cum every time lol.
I want to feel like she cares away from the sack but I just have to eat her out to get her to orgasm
Long term it is definitely the emotional, for me, which incorporates the physical. But I have heard couples, specifically men, speak of sex like it was a contractual physical duty. Not for me but who's to judge what works for couples?