Sex fetish

43% Normal
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My husband and I been together for 4 years. I just found out he has a fetish that I never knew about for as long as I’ve known him. We often watch porn ( I accept it & try to like it for him) he’s watched videos of woman being secretly recorded while on the toilet. (Pee not poop) I never paid much attention to that, until I found an old phone in our bathroom & on the phone was a video he had taken of a woman in our bathroom. We fought over it, I forgave him not knowing that this was a fedish. We got over it & as time passed it happend again, another video on another phone! This time he told me it wAs a fetish I didn’t understand what a fetish was, more importantly why has he hid this from me over & over? He tells me everything or so I thought. He promised he’d never do it again & that I am all he wants or needs. But then it happened one more time. Is this as bad as I think it is? Is there other men with the same or like same fetish? Is this like something that is going to destroy my marriage? It hurt me so bad! It still hurts several weeks later but I’ve been to embarrassed to talk to anyone we personally know but this shit is eating me up inside):
I feel like I don’t know my husband & this shit is breaking my heart every day but I don’t want anything else or anybody else!

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43% Normal
Based on 21 votes (9 yes)
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  • Lestat565
    5 years ago

    It’s a normal fetish. Many people like that. But he shouldn’t be recording people without their permission. That’s a problem. it’s also possibly illegal.

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    • Jeaneathean
      5 years ago

      Recording without permission is definitely illegal in these circumstances.

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  • jbwrites
    5 years ago

    Yes the fetish is normal but the circumstance is not legal. If he wanted to record you while you were on the toilet, and you gave him permission as long as it's only you, then fine. But recording other women without permission is against the law and disgusting.

    So if your willing to give him permission to watch you pee, if your not then you probably shouldn't have married him.

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  • xxLucifer
    5 years ago

    Fetishes are basically the exact opposite of a phobia and just like a phobia, fetishes can be hard to cope with. The fetish your husband has is called urolagnia. It's normal to have fetishes and there is nothing wrong with it, but you need to be the one to decide if his fetish gonna ruin the relationship. Lots of people are very embarrassed about there fetish especially when it is something that is typically considered abnormal. So don't be mad at the fact that he didn't tell you about it because he probably feared you would react the way that you did. You need to have an open conversation with him and try as hard as you can not to judge him.

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  • barefoot_on_the_sand
    5 years ago

    Gross.

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  • trexagireve
    5 years ago

    If you really love him you will accept this harmless fetish and you will not force him to stop it, just relax and let the flow go for the man you say you love

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  • nothingsnormalanymore
    5 years ago

    Being caught 3 times is taking the 'piss' 😂. How would he feel if you did the same to random guys? Get rid of the sad fuck.

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  • Ydoomikkin
    5 years ago

    Thank you all so much for responding I feel a lot better now!!!

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  • EnglishLad
    5 years ago

    I used to be really shy about the fact I'm into pee. The fear that the woman I loved would run five miles if I asked her to pee on me and let me return the favour was overwhelming.

    Nowadays, I tend to be much more upfront with girls I date. If they're going to continue dating me, I want them to know that I'm a kinky so-and-so!! They know what to expect, then.

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  • mc-nede
    5 years ago

    He sounds like a horny stalker ew

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