Sex before divorce is final

You shouldn't have sex with anyone but your spouce when you are still married - regardless as to whether or not a divorce is imminent.

That being said, when you are used to having sex on a regular basis, (as in a healthy marriage), and something irreconcilable occurs that would cause the marriage to end; it is only natural to have the desire to continue with sexual behavior. Or...if your marriage had been on the rocks and it's been a long time since you've had sex, it's only natural to want to have it when you see your "freedom" so close on the horizon. Those desires should be fought. Sex in those situations, aside from being morally wrong, (which should be enough of a deterrent), usually are designated as "rebounds," are not entirely healthy and rarely end well.

It's not right, and you know it, or you wouldn't be here asking a bunch of strangers.

But, yeah, it's normal.

fuck marriage

It happens all the time.Once that emotional connection is lost, something inside you just wants to move on.Its tough to resist this instinct and not go after another person.Beliefs and morality go out the window when your instincts dominate, especially when going through a divorce. Divorce is difficult on most people and the desire to seek some kind of happiness to deal with all the crap of a divorce is very strong.Saying this though, you can with hold until after the divorce, but that takes some kind of strength not many are known to have.

Your marriage is over emotionally & as a relationship & the legal termination is on the way & a technicality in that regard. I think it is normal to want to date and see others. You might want to consider if this is a rebound relationship. Take it slowly. Maybe get counselling to better understand your part in the failed marriage. I'm sure you do not want a repeat.

You should out of respect of the value of marriage (not speaking in an religious sense) wait til your divorce is final.

fuck the bible.

you go ahead and BANG OUT, brother!

According to the Bible it is Adultry and the only grounds for divorce is adultry!

This is a great start means your over your ex, I say go for it.

Well,I suppose she could get you on adultery if the divorce is not final ? If you waited this long,what's a little longer... ?

Hey,I'm not married,but all my friends are divorced,so,what do I know ?

Divorce in the 1970's took about 8 weeks, today (mine for example) it could take over 2-years. YES, you should date. YES you should have sexual relations with a worthy partner. YES it's healthy and appropriate to do so. And YES, it's okay to fall in love again. Be smart about it, wear a rubber, don't bring your new girlfriend around your kids because it is icky and confusing to them. Be a gentlemen always, but for goodness sake, unless you've chosen celibacy, enjoy yourself.

do your new gf doggie style, call her by your wifes name and do it bronco style yahoooo

just be careful. in texas it's a common law state and if you "cheat" while you're still married the judge might be rougher on you.

Yeah normal, I'm in a relationship of 3.5 years and still not divorced to my ex hubby!

Very common. I think it's okay as long ad you're not going home to your future ex at night.

yeah you dont belong to your ex bang away

IMO, you may have sex if your new partner and you are already in a committed relationship. But, you shouldn't sleep around just to spite your estranged spouse.

What is so unhealthy about it? You both have sexual needs and there's mutual consent. It's not rape or anything, right? Go for it, mate.

Well you still both need sex, so yes keep on banging her right up to the last day.

Just you go on and f*** your brains out, marriage is paper only if you make no promise yo your God.

Uniballers post

ur get divorced & ur soon to be ex could be doing the same. So why not?

yes it is normal divorce takes a long time as you have to be apart for at least 12 months I think so if you meet someone in the meantime why not. The only thing that worried me in your post is you say your with an old GF its not wise to visit old holes if it didnt work out the first time may not work a second time