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i'm not worst, or last just always second best. but recently i met this guy and fell in love with him, except that he was in love with his "dream girl" before me. (idk whether he left her or she left him...)
the question is whether i should be with him coz he's my first choice, or shouldnt coz i'm not his first choice?
is it normal to think like this?
It depends completely on what you are expecting:
You can definitely have a nice time together and a rewarding relationship regardless, but if you are looking for a lifetime relationship, maybe you should start looking somewhere else
By the way, I'm a guy
It's fine. But that is tupid. He can't help it if he found his dream girl before you, so? Work hard and you can be his nex dreamgirl. Don't you want to be with your dreamguy?
the thing is that his dream girl was someone he was over the moon. you weren't his second choice cos it's possible he know her before you.
neither, learn to fuck him better than she did, then you wont have to settle for second best
Its normal to think this way he has another girl on his mind. The only thing you can do is go at this head on and take her off his mind. If he doesnt seem to wont to forget her then maybe you should move on. Its never fun to give a relationshop 100%% while the other person is going at it 50%%. You can give yourself the best advice so look at the situation and how he is acting and make your own mind up and do not let your feelings for him put you through a living hell if staying with him is the wrong thing to do then move on. GOOD LUCK.