Scared to tell

54% Normal
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I haven’t had my period for a little over 4 months and I had morning sickness and all that S*** so I thought that I might be pregnant. I took 3 at home tests and they all came back positive. At that point I told my best guy friend all about it (me and him are really close) so any way he too me to the doctors to make sheer I really was. I went took some tests and came back about a week later. The good news was I wasn’t pregnant. The bad news was I have some sort of censer =( I still havent told my boyfrend about it. I love him with all my hart but he can get way to concerned about me. Is this normal that i dont want him to know?????

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54% Normal
Based on 76 votes (41 yes)
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  • Mando
    11 years ago

    Oh my. When you are ready you will want to put together a support network. Good luck with the treatments!

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  • birdmany
    11 years ago

    If you do have a child don't be afraid to tell it when it is old enough.

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  • Terence_the_viking
    11 years ago

    don't tell him and when he finds out it will destroy him. i can't believe people are so stupid that they can't figure this sort of thing out for themselves

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  • psychobabble
    13 years ago

    You need to watch The Big C.

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  • jay77
    13 years ago

    You need to tell him, for the support, he will be there for you!

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  • Merlot
    13 years ago

    If you are in a serious relationship, I think you should tell him or at least consider it. If he loves you, he should understand and offer his support. If not, you risk him being upset that you told your best friend months before telling him...then again, that would be selfish of him. I hope he understands. Good luck and God bless.

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  • combatgal856
    13 years ago

    There are some things that happen in life which are difficult to tell people, especially those close to you incase they treat you any differently or you feel like a burden or whatever reason you have. However at the end it is those closest to you that will help you get through these difficult times so I suggest you tell him, he is your boyfriend and I'm sure he loves you too so he will help you get through it. Good luck x

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  • kittenwaffles
    14 years ago

    No it's not normal just tell him I mean you already told ur bff and thought u were pregnant for four months so tell him.

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  • chaosdragoon1
    14 years ago

    It is normal. But you should tell him. He may want to stand with you after all.

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  • tygeronherbed
    14 years ago

    hey, my mom went through cancer twice, and i know its really really scary and really really personal, but talking about it instead of wasting energy and anxiety trying to hide it is a good way to relieve some of the pain and get comfort from those who love you. If you are close to your boyfriend, like you say you are, i think you should be brave and tell him what's going on, what youre afraid of, and what you plan to do.... if he loves you he will be supportive and stand by you.
    good luck and dont worry, youll be ok.

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  • [Old Memory]
    14 years ago

    thats sad

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  • [Old Memory]
    14 years ago

    Awh. I thinkyou should tell him because then he would spend more time with you just tell him not to worry. I Hope you get better!

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  • grumpybarbie
    14 years ago

    I think she said cancer :( . It's a personal decision if you want to tell him or not. But what's important is that you have as much emotional support as you can get. Good luck.

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  • PurpleDino
    14 years ago

    You aren't pregnant but you have what?

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