Scared to lose my virginity!?

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Hey! Im 18 years old and my boyfriend of 7 months is 22, me and him have started to kinda fool around a bit. About 2 weeks ago he started to finger me...and it HURT! He told me i was really tight, and that he only used one finger because i was so tight. I was really wet at the time too and he was really gentle with me when he did it. Me and him started talking and he told me whenever im ready to lose my virginity he would be fine with it. But to be honest im afraid only because its going to HURT soooo much....i mean his fingers arent even that big! Did it hurt really badly for anyone else when they lost their virginity? Anyone else as scared as i am about it? =[

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  • Echoes
    13 years ago

    Waiting for 7 months and yet saying "whenever you're ready"! Take it from a man, your boyfriend is a very decent guy, take care of him.

    Try lubricants.

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    Have sex with a Chinese guy 1st. they have small dicks so it wont hurt as much. or a twelve year old

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  • InfectedSunshine
    13 years ago

    have you tried fingering yourself? maybe you should take some time to get to know your body before you go and have your boyfriend finger you.. it'll be easier for you to relax if you're comfortable with yourself and then it won't hurt so much when he's inside you.

    the best of luck to you both. (:

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  • MelissaDV
    13 years ago

    Thanks everyone =] I really appreciate it

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  • Carolinne
    13 years ago

    Mine first time was fine... If you're going to do it anyway, why not now? The worst thing that can happen is hurt in the beginning.
    I do it, I like it, I recommend it.
    Seriously.

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    It hurts when I insert a tampon!! And I am also super scared to get devirgenized

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