Scared to let someone see me naked

Ok so im with the really popular "every girl wants" boyfriend. We've been dating for 8 months and its going great! But i have this hunch that he really wants to see more of me. Even tho he doesnt say it he is giving me hints like pushing down one of my straps on my shirt, stuff like that. and Im very shy when it comes to my body even tho it looks pretty good when i look at it. Im scared of what he'd think. But then again i want to show him. Like my mind wants me too but my body goes into shy mode. He's not frustrated with me not showing more. And he says he doesnt need to see my body to love me. But he still would want to see it. Its more of me being frustrated with myself not able to be comfortable with my body even if its perfectly fine. Any advice to when it comes to being more confident with your body and overcoming shyness?

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  • sineadtwiggy

    sounds normal to me, i was terrified the first time someone else saw me naked, but i learned that ive got a beautiful body and to be proud of it! and at the end of the day your only a young girl, so everything is going to be where it should be, so throw your shoulders back and keep your chin up! and if hes been with you for 8 months and not demanded sex, keep him!! haha, thou id give him a hint of something soon, hes only human!!
    good luck ;)

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    • Macezilla

      I'd have to agree with you. :)

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    • honey_blossom27

      totally agree

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  • Rssngrl

    just show him a little part when you guys are alone, give him a hint and that will keep him occupied for the nexy day or two. you will start to build up confidence and eventualy you will make the right decision...

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    • AnonKid

      She shouldn't be obligated to show him anything, if shes insecure a little part is too much for him to ask for. Just let him know you're not ready for that, and make it clear. Yeah it's possible he might get angry with you but its better than having a partner that believes he can merely undress you with no warning its inappropriate.

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  • sandrawilliams

    Jump into bed naked without looking at each other for the first time you want to get serious.. he will be so interest in your parts that he will not even be thinking or caring of anything else!

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  • He wants to hav sex

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  • tygeronherbed

    wait, how old are you? because based on how you write it seems like your 13 in which case you shouldn't be getting naked at all.

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  • Chances are your really hot so I say one day wear a cute blue dress with nothing under it go to his house and get into his room then take it off he'll go crazy u garaubtee he'll love it more than anything

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  • xpollysaurasrexx

    I'm afraid to be rejected or made fun of for the way my body looks but i prentended to be confident and my boyfriend always complinented my body. I still feel insecure but i love him and want him and he already things i'm sexy so i feign confidence :] it works, love. Its totally normal.

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  • zii

    Well you sound like your VERY young, so don't be scared. Your body is very nice when your young and then it turns to shit sometime in your 20's if you don't watch what you eat and work out. so enjoy your sexiness now.

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  • picturecake

    I found it easier to get naked with the lights off, sleep together like that, and you get used to being naked by the time it gets light. If it's getting light, and you feel so scared for him to see you naked that you've stayed up all night, you can just get up and get dressed. Win.

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  • purple-girl

    I think it is normal some people just don't like to show there body

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  • games2win007

    ok,,its normal,ok ,i have an idea , call ur bf when ur alone ,, u shoult wear skirt,,sit in front of him showing ur panty ,,and thing and ur not dooing anything,,he will do the rest for u

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  • Stealthssination1710

    If your body is pretty good like you say it is then show him! If you had known each other that long and he wants to see your body then it's ok. It does not matter what he thinks because if he is the one who wants to see it then he should be happy with what he sees and besides it's not like he will force you to go to the gym or something! If he would not like your body when he sees it then why'd he date you in the first place.

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  • CoolJazz20

    Its normal if a boy like me or a girl is nervous to let a person see them like that well it means that he or she is looking better than you or or or dont get mad but it could mean ur not ready

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  • Aris

    well it's normal but everything will go into it's own pace...once you're more comfortable with him i'm pretty sure you'll let go and then everything just becomes a lot better

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  • shayj430

    well he said it he doesnt need to see your body to love you so if your body looked terrible hed love you anyways btw thats so cute lol ! but thats totally normal . im the same way

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  • MadRadHair

    hmmm maybe you should record yourself acting like your haveing sex then rewatch it to see his point of view

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  • mtnw

    you are shy because you aren't ready. he's going to have to deal with it. if it ruins your relationship, then you'll know what he's really like.

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  • He just wanna have a sex with you... isn't that obvious?no wonder that girls only think about sex 1 time a day and guys every 52 seconds.

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