Scared of sex

i m in a relationship from last 3.5 yrs.perfect guy any girl can get.we have done everythin except for intercourse.we have had oral sex and finally after 3 yrs i allowed him 2 insert his finger bt sex is somthing we hav still not been able to have.i am mentally disturbed now.i m really scared f intercourse.the moment his penis touches me,i panic.i do get wet n stuff bt sex scares me.its gettin on2 my relationship now.i need help.

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  • 1000yrVampireKing

    If you have been with him for only 3 years you probably should not be having sex. If he is pressuring you he does not really care about you. It is normal to be scared the first time around and if you are that terrified it shows that you are not ready. Do it when you are ready and not when he wants. I would say wait till marriage to make sure they care since many men will leave after they finally get you to give it up. If he loves you he will wait. Nothing says I love you like a ring on your finger.

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