Scared of being in a relationship....confused if it's worth it.

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I'm going keep it plain and simple, but I really just need advice here... P.S I'm Female.
Okay, so I've been in a relationship for 2 years and then after that 2 years we broke up... It was really a amazing relationship and now that I'm single I'm afraid to love again. I'm not the tipe just to have a "one night stand", and most guys are only interested in the fun and the "beauty" of woman.
I met then this guy that is really handsome, well mannered and he cares. I actually started falling for this guy after 6 months(first time I do since the break up). Question is,does he like me back? does he like me for me? Would I get hurt again? ... I don't want to get hurt again... But it's the first time I feel really happy again, and that's when I'm with him. We went on coffee dates and talked for hours and laughed and went dancing one time (but he would never say anything about his feelings...he'a a mystery) ... But question remains, is it worth taking a chance? Does he like me? Can this maybe be ment to be?

Yes, just tell him that you like him. 0
Yes, ask him how he feels. 5
No, this is only friendship and nothing more 1
Yes, go with the time and see where things go 4
No, watch out and don't get attached. 2
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  • JohnMcBain1967
    6 years ago

    Well I know it hurts to get back on the saddle again but we all need human companionship. If you're really attracted to this guy that I would just ask him. He may not have said anything because he was also hurt in a prior relationship. Then again he may not be interested, it's hard to say I don't know him. You could do it very subtly and ask him about his prior relationships and how he feels about dating. You can tell a lot of how someone feels from their answers...considering they are being honest

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      6 years ago

      Thank you so much. I agree with your answer and I will try talking to him about his prior relationships. If he does not want to be in a relationship, then I will respect that as well. I can just hope for the best.
      Thank you for your advise.

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  • normal-1
    6 years ago

    He would have said something if he wanted more than sex from you. Start looking again.

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