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Okay, I'm a girl. I've been in a relationship with this guy for over a year now. Me and him are ALWAYS together and I love that :). But, lately I've been wanting to do more with my friends because they were starting to think I was kinda stuck up his a*s and I don't wanna lose friends. Now I'm afraid he'll be mad, is it normal to think this?
So ask yourself this..... is this the man I'm going to marry and is he more important to me than anyone else on the planet?
If the answer is yes, then say good bye to your friends and rush into your boyfriend's arms. If he's just a boyfriend that is not going to last, then I'd say you better keep your friends because once the guy is gone, you'll want them.
Hope this helps.
As for my fiancé & I, the best days of our lives are when we spend every moment together. That said, we make a point to encourage each other to keep up with our active social lives. Something that makes it A LOT easier is I've become friends with her girlfriends, and she's become friends with my guy friends. So she'll come out with the guys, and I'll go out with the girls periodically.
Sounds like your relationship isn't really healthy. You should be able to see your friends without having to ask permission (he's not your father). Also, are you really scared of how angry he will be? ... it's def not normal.
Look, I know a guy who knows a guy who spend so much time with his girlfriends, that he's now all alone.
Even his best friend left because that guy is human too and doesnt need to force his best friend to hang around with him.
Your friends want to spend time with you, and if you want to keep them as friends, then you should care.
So just go up to him one day and say yer going out with friends, if he gets mad just because he doesnt want you to go, then he's not someone to spend yer life with.
Too much togetherness. You need your friends - go to them. Doesn't he have friends? Is that why he's clingy & could get angry? Well - whatever the reason, it is not all that healthy and you should not let a man's anger or prospect of anger control you. If it upsets him much, maybe its time to show him the door...
talk to him about it. If he loves u, he wouldnt be mad:). I gave up all my friends because of my bf. Its not a good thing, cuz if he leaves me, i wont have nobody else. He has his friends, and all. But i dont have any cuz he doesnt want me to. Talk to ur bf and tell him how u feel. Share your time between your friends and your bf :)
It's normal to not want to lose your friends. If you talk to him, openly and honestly, I'm sure he wouldn't mind spending more time with his friends too.
honey its not a relationship if u guys cant share one anothers feelings....anywhoo....let him know how you feel and if he loves you trully im sure he will understand
good luck
Deadmanwade is right. I had a few friends that used to get mad and think I was a snob for not hanging with them while with a man, but then when they got their own relationships, guess who was getting ditched? Screw ur friends if they are giving u a guilt trip because they will be the same way.
You will NEVER be able to commit to a serious relationship if you still give a crap about what your friends think. Your friends are s--t, they are giving you crap now but whats gonna happen when they get into serious relationships? They are going to ditch you and you will wish you would have held on to your bf. Friends come a dime a dozen, someone you click with is rare. Unless you really dont give a hoot about your bf then go get your party on and then settle when you are done whoring around with your friends.. j/k