Saw something weird on my bfs phone

If I had a girlfriend I'd be really upset if she looked at my phone!

In other words, I'm not at all upset and never will be.

It's several things.

1. You think marriage actually means something to a lot of people. Realistically, marriage only has meaning if you're very religious, or don't mind joining finances with a partner you truly love and trust. However, many use marriage as a steppingstone, trying to make a relationship (whether it's failing or had just begun) something more serious and falsely permanent. So it's not surprising that the married guy would say these things, sadly.

2. You don't trust your boyfriend. Don't bullshit me with some, "Oh I trust him!! It's just his friends are sketchy af!!!!" No. His friends aren't him. Unless your boyfriend was a straight pussy who can't do anything for himself and follows his friends around like a lost puppy, then yeah you should be worried and seriously wonder why you're dating him, but I assume he's not.

In the end, just be glad he thinks of you enough to call you up and tell you about his day, or spend time with you doing stupid shit, or even trust you enough to leave his phone lying around carelessly. Because if your boyfriend did have side-ass, his attention/time would be divided, and you would rarely ever get to glance at his phone when it's unlocked. Let the married guy's wife worry about what he says or does, just focus on your boyfriend and actually trust him based on his words and actions, and not the actions of others.

This is so not any of your business, why are you lying to your boyfriend or do you tell him u look at his phone? I don't understand how you can make a moral judgement on this person before being open in your own relationship about your behavior your partner may not appreciate.

but isn't that sketchy? his friends basically said they are gonna fuck other girls right?

Got news for you..Men love big tits, no matter what. If he has a pic on his phone, it's all in fun with the guys. Jeez, I had a fun, wet-half shirt pic of my hot older sister (her idea, when we were on vacation) on my phone, one of my guy friends saw it, went crazy over it, and made all sorts of comments and "What I'd do to those". I took it all in fun, as also know they'll never get close to her, and what I, myself, do with her. The guys are always telling me now "Get her to do more pics..Naked..Tell her your friends will pay her".

Funny thing is, I think she would. You need to remember, guys will be guys. And guys love big tits. Period. Nothing you can do about it.

It's just "locker room guy talk" nothing to worry about.

you put the mental in judgemental

I'm sorry but if my boyfriend looked at my phone or read my messages I could never trust him again

Ditto. Ur bf didn't say anything that any respectable guy wouldn't say. He was just going with the flow. Let it go and just worry about you.

I don't like big tits.they get in the way and you never get really close to the girl when you hug.
You should be concerned about the kind of ppl your bf is involved with. Dont smother him but remember things can happen in the spur of the moment. Ppl who dont pay attention end up having no clue that their partners are cheating on them.

It means a lot of gambling and a fair amount of drinking. Possibly a bit of strip clubs. Maybe marijuana depending on the person. I doubt he means cheating if that is what you're asking, though.