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I have been single for nearly over three years now and i haven't dated many guys I am quite fussy but not in a shallow way I just haven't met anybody who apeals to me. I'm not a virgin but I've been thinking I want to save sex until I fall in love again because it's always been a very emotional thing for me. Is This normal?
Enjoying casual sex regularly isn't automatically bad, saving yourself isn't automatically good. I save myself and I'm a virgin but I don't think anyone that doesn't save themselves should automatically gain the title as slut. I'm not saying saving yourself is wrong, I'm just saying that it doesn't make everyone happy; like being promiscuous or Polyamorous doesn't make everyone happy.
And yes, my username is Goodvibrations, *insert "if you know what I mean" meme here* because it reflects my sex-positive beliefs.
I'm sorry for passive aggressively scolding you but your negative comment with regards to female sexuality got under my skin a tad and I felt I wanted to say something.
Ahh I'm glad u feel that way! Don't just give itself away, save it for someone special, who can love u and not hurt u like a one night stand would!
I can not say if it is normal but it is a beautiful think to not share sex with many people. I should be very special and even if you do not save it for martriage it should be given out only in the best situation
Sex that goes hand in hand with an emotional attachment is always best. It's absolutely normal. Love seems to eradicate any embarressment or worries when it comes to sex.
your though is very good yes if you fall in love then you enjoy lot of sex..
Stick to your guns! Sex is best with someone who means something to you. I don't say this from any kind of religious perspective, nor am I saying you should wait till marriage; rather, I view such intimacy as a means of communication. If you share yourself to that extent with just anyone, it suddenly becomes less special. I have always kept myself to myself because I don't trust easily, but at least my other half knows he's pretty damn special for me to have let my barriers down with him. Some people seem able to sleep with another quite easily, but if you know that's not right for you, then be true to yourself and wait. When the right time comes, you'll know. Remember: if you're unsure, that's a good indicator that the time's not right. And you can always wait longer, but once you do it, it can't be undone. So trust your gut. It'll be worth it in the end. :)
Chicks have sex when they're in love. Guys have sex so they don't fucking shoot people.
Just screw yourself as you can still can. That pretty face will not last forever.
Don't wait for the "blue prince" to come and take you.
hie I'm a guy and I feel the same way. I'm fussy too and I wish there were more girls in the world like you.
Good idea it seems like there are very many few people like that anymore :( save it
u most not love bf sex. i do hv sex with my casual friend. each time i visit or we go to read n am horny i ask him to make love to me he does n we all do enjoy it.
Idk just go fuck someone lady u need some cock in ur pussy get real sister
You know the sluts sportsmom was talking about? Your in the slut category. i wouldnt fuck you with my 9 inch Dick without a sleeve. From the sounds of Ur comment you have all sorts of STDs
Ninaxoxo was probably trolling...
If by slut you mean "a women who enjoys sex" I'd like to direct you towards my response to sportmom's comment. Women who enjoy sex don't necessarily have STDs. I'm not saying you've got to have sex with a slut, I'm just saying don't immediately affiliate a women expressing her enjoyment for sex (even though this was probably a troll) with somebody who is disrespectful or irresponsible with sex.
I'm sorry for the passive aggression but I find it's a bit old- fashioned to treat abstinence and Polyamorous/ casual sex as the sexual ethics battle of good vs evil without weighing in other factors.
Everybody has a breaking point booboo. You got to find yourself a man and get you some healthy sexual intercourse. I would suggest going on the darker side if you feel me.
George