Same sex relationships and children?

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Wont say anything hateful towards gays....and I promise to be nice to everyone this time :)
Is it normal for me to think that a same sex couple who raise a child might create different sexuality preferences in the children? I am asking this because I knew a guy when I was in school(and was bullied quite alot) who was raised by his same sex mothers, him + his older brother + and his younger brother are ALL "gay". I have a thought that being raised by two MAYBE very feminine girls made them abit more that way "inclined".
Is it normal for me to think that a same sex couple who raise a child might create different sexuality preferences in the children? and put your views belowwwwwwwwww
Please dont beat me to death w/ the term homophobic idgaf

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  • charli.m
    9 years ago | pl

    I worked for a gay couple a few years back. They had a boy and a girl. The girl was very girly and the boy was very boyish. Who knows about their sexuality, they were three and one. Who cares though? They had great dads and were very happy and healthy and LOVED and WANTED.

    I really doubt that gay couples are more likely do raise gay children. I mean...straight couples raise gay kids...

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    • charli.m
      9 years ago

      http://www.thenewcivilrightsmovement.com/largest_study_of_its_kind_finds_same_sex_couples_raise_happier_healthier_kids

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  • TheOneWhoComesFromEnordro
    9 years ago

    It's not normal persay and I think it mostly defers case-by-case. Not everyone raised by straight folk turn out to be straight so it's not really a matter of what sexuality one's parents are. Perhaps it's a matter of what sexuality develops as one gets older as well as one's own perferences.

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  • mccain
    9 years ago

    as a gay person i don't see it has anything to do with it. you are either born gay or straight. as a straight person did you decide when growing up and reaching puberty you would CHOOSE girls? when you reach that age you find yourself attracted to whichever sex. That being said, while i understand the desire for a gay couple to want kids, i don't think it's a good idea. Not because of what you asked, but because it's not fair to the child to be put thru that kind of torment from other kids.

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    • DaMan
      9 years ago

      i cant say I "chose" girls but tbh I do honestly feel that all boys are born attracted to feminity and I knew I was from a young age........
      Do you think as a gay person, u might just be attracted to the feminine/masculine traits in your partner? I mean ,surely one of the partners has to take on more masculine/feminine role during sex.....so at that point hasnt your partner basically just filled the void of a man/woman???
      Im not trying to offend ppl, but as a young boy I always thought that gay people where just intimidating of ADVANCING sexually with girls they like......so they just become their best friend or w/e. I'm only tryna understand ya'll

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      • [Old Memory]
        9 years ago

        Just as you naturally like girls they naturally like boys no need to over analyze. People are different vanillas my favorite ice cream and maybe chocolates yours. Some dudes like dicks others don't.

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      • mccain
        9 years ago

        well DAMAN no offense is taken. i'm well past that stage. yes i am attracted to the masculine men and even find straight married guys even hotter because that makes them more masculine to me. However, i would not say i am feminin by any means. not an alpha male, but certainly not feminin. so let me ask you to help you understand. would you be attracted to a"butch" woman? i doubt it.

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        • DaMan
          9 years ago

          Erm, no I'm not really attracted to a "butch" women I prefer more gentle, caring types......As your attracted to more "masculine" men I'm guessing this means ur the one whose underneath during sex. So havent you basically just taken of the roles of everything the woman would do. I'm tryna say this in the least offensive way but can you see what I mean?? But like, unoe...at the time ur bf is "fucking" you (cringe) havent you basically become a woman sorta?? Or like a feminine man??
          AGAIN...IM NOT TRYING TO CAUSE OFFENSE

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          • charli.m
            9 years ago

            Oh dear god...the ignorance...it burns my brain D:

            They are both MEN. One isn't "the woman". That's the whole fucking point.

            Jesus...

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            • DaMan
              9 years ago

              Masculine / Feminine
              Man / Woman
              Fucker / The Fucked.
              Do you get it yet, one of them does what a woman GENETICALLY does. So I'm saying doesnt that mean the guy has basically replaced a woman for you?
              charli fuck off you annoying ass bitch

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          • mccain
            9 years ago

            you are not offending me in the least so don't fret about it. well i guess you are right in some part because i am the one underneath, but i never do anal sex and never have. i do however like to be dominated so i guess you could say i take on the role of the woman, but i am not feminin looking or acting. that is what i meant. i can only speak for myself, but since puberty i was always attracted to guys, not that i hate women,and find some very attractive. they just don't get me horny to be blunt.

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      • Jfdp
        9 years ago

        When I was younger I thought gay gays where just players with highish voices and weird senses of humor who all the guys disliked out of jealousy

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      • mrkrule
        9 years ago

        The idea that there is a "boy" and a "girl" in every relationship is extremely misguided. Sometimes people just like each other and want to have sex with each other, and it doesn't have anything to do with "masculine" or "feminine" traits

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  • GreyWulfen
    9 years ago

    It is just that being raised by a same sex couple makes them more accepting towards their own sexuality. They are more likely to "come out of the closet" because they see it as something completely normal.

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    • Crusades
      9 years ago

      Just because the child was raised by gays doesn't mean they're gonna be more accepting. Because what you see during your childhood is gonna be the default setting for how your brain is gonna perceive and distinguish normal from abnormal. Seeing two parents of the same sex as the norm, will eventually lead to seeing heterosexuality as abnormal.

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      • GreyWulfen
        9 years ago

        Yes, children raised by gay parents WILL mean they're most likely gonna be more accepting, you can google that. Also, our brain is not that dualistic. Guess what, I was raised by heterosexual parents and I considered homosexuality as normal since I had an opinion about that.

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        • Diver2
          9 years ago

          I need a blowjob and i am male.

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  • Crusades
    9 years ago

    Oh, and, i almost forgot. To the person who asked this question: STOP apologizing in advance for your opinion. you are entitled to having an opinion and NO ONE can take that right away from you. You don't have to apologize for shit!
    "please don't beat me to death with the term homophobic"

    No one is gonna beat you. The most thing you'll get is some butthurt comments from sensitive liberal twats who don't know any better because P.C. has been ingrained into their psychology.

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    • robbieforgotpw
      9 years ago

      One of the biggest insults in school was if someone said you had to daddies

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      • robbieforgotpw
        9 years ago

        Two

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  • nbarrager
    9 years ago

    if that were true, children raised by straight parents wouldn't be gay

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  • NeuroNeptunian
    9 years ago

    I think it is more likely that children raised in same-sex couples homes may DISPLAY their non-heterosexual preference more often than children in hetero couples homes simply because they are in an environment where it is not condemned practice. I do not think it changes the child's sexuality, just their openness to accept and explore their own inner sexual feelings.

    I have known many men and women to repress their homosexual feelings only to completely regress later on in life, after, say, a marriage and kids. Attraction to one sex may not always mean automatic repulsion to the other.

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  • Couman
    9 years ago

    Don't know if it's true, but it's normal to think that.

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  • handsignals
    9 years ago

    Tarzan

    ...think about it

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