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How will I deal with my ruly boyfriend? These past few weeks, he had been too ruly and dominating, insisting his wants and his want alone. It seems that my chest and brain would burst everytime he acts that way. I already tried to talk to him about it but he acts as if he's not aware of it. Is it normal? :( Help!
It takes two to be in a relationship. It sounds like he is trying to be both. You should move on and find someone who cares about you!
Is this a sudden change in behavior, or has he always been "ruly?" If it's a long-running thing, "take out the trash" as another commenter said, because that's at least at the threshold of abuse. If he used to be nice and turned into a dick this month, then maybe there's something going on with him.
Whatever the case, there's not much you can do except try as hard as you can to stress the urgency of the situation, set healthy boundaries, and take care of yourself. A few weeks is really long for a man to have a period, though.
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Yikes. If he won't listen to your opinions, scream them at him.
He sounds selfish, and it's making you sound mousy and immature. Show him AND yourself that you don't need to be told what to do.
If he won't listen to your concerns, ditch him ASAP. That's always a red flag of something worse.
You can do it.
i would say he is selfish talk to him about it if he doesnt change just leave him dont you think people need a chance?