Romantic fantasies

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hi, i consider myself as a nice guy most people tell me that i am good looking (i myself dont think that i am) i lately have been seeing a girl on school which i really really like. i don't think that see has noticed me but i constantly look at her and when not around her i think about her all the time. but before going to bed i always fantasize about her in a non-sexual way. i just fantasize what it would be to lie in bed with her and just look at her and kiss her. nothing weird i guess but i constantly fantasize this. is this normal? (oh yes and i do not have a girlfriend or ever had one) it is really driving me crazy and i dont know what to do next.

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  • Spin
    12 years ago

    Nothing wrong with that, especially since many guys would fantasize about having sex with the girl at night... which is the ACTUAL kind of creepy. Romantic fantasies are much more adorable. :>

    My friend have this guy who really likes her and follows her around, and he even told her he fantasizes about having sex with her. I think that he is just an absolute stalker creep. My god.

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  • layercake350
    13 years ago

    Just keep it as your own private fantasy-cause reality has a way of disappointing

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  • xXAnnaXx
    13 years ago

    I do the same thing. :)

    I just see attractive people then imagine myself in a relationship with them, definately normal. :)

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  • (:sweet:)
    13 years ago

    Thats so sweet! Im really pretty and would love for. A guy to be like that aww:)

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    • ThatTryHardGuy
      13 years ago

      Tnx this makes me feel great because i thought that it made me a creep when thinking like this but turns out to be sweet? yeah

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    Nice guy. Just be confident in yourself but not over confident cocky which will make you seem like a dick. But for some reason girls like guys who are dicks. Its up to you.

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  • DefinitelyNotNormal89
    13 years ago

    Do not hate yourself for being a nice guy- trust me they can be hard to find =)
    I suppose try not to be over-confident, the best advice I can give is just be you, she has to fall for you not anybody else if that makes sense? Shyness can be such an adorable trait so use it to your advantage.
    If it doesn't work out you will get over it and you will find someone else so try not to panic about that, it's a part of life I'm afraid and you shouldn't take it to heart.
    You're obviously young- there is soooooo much more to life then girlfriends so try n stop worrying about getting one. You don't need a girlfriend, you will meet a girl you like and it will work but the more you concentrate on it the more it will bring you down.
    Enjoy your youth whilst you can, before you know it you'll be married with kids!

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    • ThatTryHardGuy
      13 years ago

      Tnx i need advice like this

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  • TyLee
    13 years ago

    Awwwww that is so cute. You sound like such a nice guy and she will be lucky to be with a guy like you. Just try talking to her. Girls usually wait for guys to make a move. I hope it works out! Good luck!

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    • ThatTryHardGuy
      13 years ago

      most people tell me that i am a nice guy, but i hate myself over it because i know that i am to shy to make a move (also in the past i have made some moves on girls out of my lead and this just did not work out so i have a really big fear of getting rejected) do you maybe have any girl tips on this because i am getting depressed when i think about a life without a girlfriend really i need that i guess. i just wish everyday that i will meet a girl which i really like but she feels the same about me but sometimes i just think that that will never happen.

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  • Thatguy777
    13 years ago

    I've had this happen to me many times. I almost feel like I made the post.

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  • Sotchi
    13 years ago

    Sounds like you have a crush. Try talking to her- strike up a conversation. Talk about normal stuff & see if she seems interested in talking to you. If she does, keep conversing with her when you see her then you can work up to asking her on a date

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