Results are in, threesome, public display tops list

About a month ago I ask a question about spicing up a relationship. As expected gf/wife with another female was one of the top answers. I expected that; almost to the point I wasn't going to give that as a choice. I just figured that was most males fantasy. Tied with that was wear a remote control vibe in public and third was short skirt no panties. Both very public displays. I was surprised because other options were public displays but had some restrictions such as, being at home with a limited amount of people, being in a car, or even just sheer clothing. The comments were varied however most seemed negative about all the choices and I'm sure if you are f or m played into the answers.
So this is the follow up, where and when would you go out? Night, daytime, movie, park, restaurant, shopping, bus, airplane, amusement park. Are u M or F ? Last part if u go out with another couple and they hand you the remote or tell you about the no panties what actions do u take if any?