Request for dating advice

I was just random researching some dating stuff online and one of the topics I searched was "signs you're dating a loser". Every single article was advice written from women to women about how to recognize male "losers" and getting rid of them.

Is it normal to wonder why there is such bias and how come there aren't more articles for men?

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  • Max2016

    Because men don't tend to care about losers as long as they are hot.

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  • sandnigga

    The world is too greedy for money, and not enough love.

    We could use more love, not money.

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  • sandnigga

    Sounds like a bitchy article. I dont like how people judge other people just off of money.

    Your putting possibly a really cool person down just because they're not successful. Well fk off to that

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  • Tealights

    Max2016 is right.

    Most men don't care if the girl is jobless, crazy, a complete bitch, controlling, and more as long as she's attractive enough or good in bed. The articles you do see from men only teach you how to get women, but dont nesseaserily teach you how to judge their character.

    Go to badassyoungmen.com, it's a decent site that isn't all about getting that pussy, but more about finding the right woman and becoming a healthier man so you can keep that woman or attract women who aren't hoes. Not only does it help you discover unhealthy things about yourself, it also helps you identify unhealthy signs in women that you should avoid without sounding misogynistic, or making dumb points like, "If she don't like the same music, dump her."

    Good luck.

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    • Thorolf

      Jobless, fine.

      Crazy, a complete bitch, controlling, not fine.

      I'm very picky when it comes to personalities.

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      • Tealights

        Personality is important, but you should really aim for more than just personality.

        The reason I say this is because anyone can train themselves to be funny, witty, sassy, and more to attract people or become likeable. Ever met that girl who seems so charming and can relate to just about everything you and your male friends like only after hanging out with her for a short time? Or that girl who seems to say all the perfect things that you like even though you only known her for a few months? You think, "She's perfect, i must date her!!!" You won't really know what she's really like until you are one-on-one with her on a more intimate level.

        The problem is, if personality is all you require, you won't leave her as quickly as you should when she starts behaving crazy, lacks in other important areas, or disrespect/emasculate you. You'll always remind yourself of that amesome girl you fell for, that you'll refuse to accept who she really is and make excuses or blame periods/birth control/etc.

        Not saying you should set your standards/expectations super high, but it shouldn't be limited to just one main thing. Instead make it a reasonable amount of things you not only look for in a woman, but in a partner you can rely on emotionally and financially if needed.

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        • Thorolf

          Actually, doing any of those things you mentioned shows that she has a negative personality. Crazy? Bad personality, break up with her. Disrespectful or emasculating? Also signs of a bad personality. A good personality includes not being crazy, unreasonable, disrespectful, etc.

          And yes I know this comment is old, sorry.

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  • Ellenna

    Presumably because men don't write them?

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  • _Mehhh_

    I don't know your circumstances but if (hypothetically) you're not working, you're not confident and you're desperately trying to find a relationship, people will sniff it out about you from the very first date.

    Just go on a date, enjoy the day for what it is and don't worry about "is this a life partner?" for a while. The carefree-ness is more attractive.

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  • Cheet0

    Yeah I tend to agree with ya; myself a guy who never has had luck in dating field... Only rly had one "GF" who rly wasn't all that into me in the first place... Bitch...

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  • JustAegis

    Wait...Is this real? Are there article like these!?
    ...You ladies are true demons...

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  • mysistersshadow

    I guess its normal to wonder if thats something you wonder about.

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